"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
hmmm....
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
All they need is a DJ mentoring service and they'd have the perfect system. One of the many reasons why Europe is amazing.
and i will finish that list for thee (to save space i will only include those events that are recent and/or current):Colin O'Brien said:
racism, ethnic wars, religious wars, ethnic cleansing, 17 year old girls joining marriage agencies, domestic terrorism, warlords, ancient ethnic rivalries, skinheads, sex tourism, sex trafficking of 12 year old girls, car bombs, poisoning of presidents, bodyguards for businessmen, and the list goes on.
oh sweet europe
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Buy a man a hooker and you get him laid for a night.
Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.
There was a program about this on in England a year or so ago. Some guy from north England flew to the Netherlands and spent all this time with some woman to get over his sexual anxiety.
Enjoy your losing your national sovereignty to the Mexicans. Oh wait, America already belongs to the Israelis.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hey now! i will report your name to the upstanding folks at aipac! :nono:Trinitron said:
http://www.aipac.org/
too many americans are stupid and think that europe is all holland or sweden. the reality is that most of europe is really ****ed up. much of the eastern part is now the world's largest brothel and ethnic and religous feuds have never ended in most of europe. i blame it all on the piggy brits who screwed up most of europe and the world by creating countries that should have never been created in the first place.
in saying all this, i prefer the ****ed up part of europe over having to bum it with a bunch of backpackers in a cesspool like amsterdam.