"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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I've been doing more thinking. And now instead of focussing on girls, I've started to focus on me, I know that the problem is me if I'm not getting girls. I hate it when people say 'just be you and you'll do fine' or 'your great as you are, if she can't see that, then she's stupid' that doesn't help whatsoever.

So, I'm deciding to change. I'm going to work out, work hard, and when the time for a girl comes along, I'll be fantastic by then, and It'll be easy to get a quality girl.

I'm going to make a new DJ name now. I think I have matured and moved forward Alot since coming here. My new name will Be 'SonnetOfLove'
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok, Sonnet. Just make sure your improving for the right reasons (internal) and nothing will be able to stop you. Except maybe, a truck, a bullet, or AIDS......But I'm sure you'll do fine!
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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BenPW-DJNewbie said:
'your great as you are, if she can't see that, then she's stupid'
these are called dumb b!tches :D
and if you're of good value, they've missed out on a lot, which is good because they're dumb b!tches.. lol
 
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