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Hmmm, what the F***?

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Alright, I got a weird ass situation. I think a girl's trying to push pull me or some **** like that. Not really sure what's going on.

Alright, basically we've been talking for a little while. Probably a bit too long. She insisted that we hang out one week, and then canceled to to sickness. We made plans the next week and she pitched the same excuse. So, I decided to "NEXT."

Basically, I cut off all contact. But she contacted me a few days later through email. At first, she was giving long responses and whatnot, but now she's started to cut it off and is nearly impossible to talk with. She seems upset over something, but isn't telling me what.

I'm likely about to cut off communication again. Good course of action? And what's going on, in your expert opinions?
 

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Girl's are crazy sometimes... prob not the answer you wanted

But I stopped caring about stuff like this or wasting my time thinking about it.

Just ease off a bit and not care and things will either pick up b/c of it or not , but at that point you don't care remember.

an attitude of some non interest or not willing to play these BS high school games will go a long way.
 
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Yeah, I kinda figured. I'm not particularly worried... more curious than anything.

And in my experience at least, not giving a fvck is the best advice I've ever gotten.

Thanks for solidifying that.
 
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You should have carried on cutting off the contact even when she was emailing you
 
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