Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hmmm (his money makes him more attractive)

Chosen1

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Well, guys let's start this new years off right. I want to ask you all a question. To you guys that actually talk to girls. When you hold a conversation, and she asks what do you do. Do some of you guys feel that she is trying to find out how much you make? I must admit I went out with this girl and offered to pay off something for her, (dumb rookie mistake she should have paid off my bills). The girl said no, and we kept making out. Then some girls will say behind your back,hmmm I wonder how much he makes. Or the classic he makes a lot of money. Maybe they think about this secondary to finding out if you are an ok person. What do you guys think discussion
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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musclyjerk

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For the majority of chicks, yes.

As for it being secondary, don't be so sure.

This reminds me of a funny story I heard a few years back off a friend - who is friends with a professional motorbike rider in England. When he was on holiday a woman asked him what he did for a living, and he said 'I'm a professional motorbike racer' - she shouted at him and called him a liar, then walked off.

Women eh.

The Muscly Jerk
 

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I've got a friend who thinks women care tons about money...
It is really funny too...
Like he tries to brag about stuff and thinks its attractive...
I know of at least one woman that has told him he is materialistic to his face!

I've noticed older women do care about money.
My rough guess is ages 22 and up.
I believe its mostly about social status though.
Lets say I'm at a college coffee house, the girls would ask me where I go to school. But if I am at a 21 and up bar, its what do you do?

I always answer "nothing important" and wink at the girl.
I love playing hard to get... Plus I hate gold diggers!
 

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Money matters to everyone. Women just vary in degrees to how much. Sometimes I play a fortune-telling card game with women. They are allowed to ask questions about men in their life. The most common questions they ask I assume are the things they care about the most...

"Who makes the most money?"
"Who is the best at sex?"
"Who is the most loyal?"
"Who is the best looking?"
"Who thinks about me the most?"
"Who cares about me the most?"

I never heard anyone ask "Who will treat me well the best?" So yes, money matters, but so do a lot of things.
 

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having more money than the guys around you is the surest way to get the top caliber girls. this goes for any society. even chubby american coeds will dump some a&f wearing frat. boy for a dude who has a new s-class benz.

i drop 9 out of 10 of you guys in eastern ukraine and you would have covergirls smiling at you once they found out you were an american boy. why? because you are at the high end of the ladder.

funny how money can make the strangest and goofiest looking dude into an eccentric sex symbol.

you should always off to pay off something for a girl. human nature is such that once you do that she will feel like she owes you. you immediately have the upper-hand.

almost all of you dudes seem to be mistaken. looks and attitude mean little when it comes to girls (especially high caliber ones). money and the lifestyle that you can give them is what they want. by high caliber i meanh: young, heels instead of flip flops, size 24' waist, makeup, and quiet. yes, there are places on this earth where that kind of girl is very normal and would find most of you to be very wealthy.

p.s. sex only is important to tramps. how many "clean" girls walk around thinking about sex all the time (like you guys wish they did)? i would say few. very few. as one poster said on this board..."i think americans think about sex more than other people."..lol you would be 100 times more deadly if you didn't let sex dominate your every thought.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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