"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hmmm, dames and drama.

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So here I am back in my home town...for about a month and I started talking to a chick who is outside of my normal social circle, although I have known her longer, but I digress.

One of my friends, a female who is a good friend of a chick I bang occasionally, calls me over and tells me STD's can transmit through jeans and I am like har har. She proceeds to tell me I am going to catch STD's if I sleep with this chick and blah blah blah. Obviously this plants a seed of doubt, but this girl is much younger and hotter than the both of them which may or may not be the reason.

I am probably putting too much stock into this, either way I always wrap it up. The whole lot of these chicks just **** on each other all night, to me of course. Bout to just drop em all.

On a side note it is just great having a hot chick hanging all over you and buying you drinks all the while providing massive social proof.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Classic female herd behavior. They want the attention you are giving her, so they try to create doubt. They also have a need for some social drama so they create it when it isn't happening on it's own. I'm never surprised by this.
 

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Indeed, been a real trip. This is the first chick I have gamed in quite some time. I have been heavily focused on my own situation working out and being awesome.

To be honest the doubt has been there without the need of that outside influence, the chick is what I would call an alpha female, although I hate the term alpha there is no denying it exists in some ways. She is super confident, has her **** together, is hot and she knows it and shows it, men want her and dames hate her. Our interactions are a lot of fun, we're laughing hysterically and there is a lot of positive energy.

It really comes as no surprise that pretty much everyone around me is getting jealous. Guys (even some friends) are coming over and trying to AMOG me pretty much all night on top of the chicks trying to play their games.

I'm just gonna ride the wave until I leave town. :D
 

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Not really sure how you guys feel about RSD, but this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=268fopITxKM is just awesome. My intent was just to have a blast with a hot chick without being dependent on the outcome. Mission accomplished, and gave much better results than worrying about how I am going to get into her pants.




I just remembered something interesting though, a buddy of mine walked up and saw her looked at me and pointed at her and is like you and her? I just played it cool with an ehhhh and she just says yes, definitely and sits down...I cannot recall a time when I have had a woman that I really am not seriously dating, have not done anything more than kiss her act like that and say such things. Again I have known this girl for over 10 years now (never really that close and I never pursued her), and already played off the "I had never even thought of this" bull****.
 
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