I've learned to approach, show eye contact, be funny, engage in alot of conversation and what-not. However, the bad boy method teaches the exact opposite! It teaches to make yourself scarce, not to freely offer information, and to make it seem that you don't really even care! Which method should I choose? Is there a way to merge them? Plz help!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hmm, the "Bad Boy" method seems to contradict the general method I've learned.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Reloaded, you said this:
"I've learned to approach, show eye contact, be funny, engage in alot of conversation and what-not. However, the bad boy method teaches the exact opposite! It teaches to make yourself scarce, not to freely offer information, and to make it seem that you don't really even care! Which method should I choose? Is there a way to merge them? Plz help!"
When you do what I said in the other thread, this is what happens. Before, you seen women more as something to be conquered, that's why you wanted to seduce them, run patterns, be ****y funny, or do any method to get her interested. Once you got her interested and had sex you said, "I won! I conquered her!" But in reality, she conquered you. Because she took your time and energy. The energy and time you spent on seduction was a lot, and then you had to take her on the date, (you probably paid for it), you had spend your energy making her exciting and thrilled to get her to fvck, or like you said, using your eye contact, Gunwitch stuff.
When do become the alpha male using the strategy I used, I call it "becoming king" you view women and the world differently. Women are no longer things to be conquered but things to be used ( I don't mean that in a bad way), guys are no longer competition but people to make yourself look better ( I don't mean that in a bad way either) You won't really see this until you did what I did. When you do, women will be like fast food restaurants. You'll have 6 to choose from, and all of the 6 will be fighting for your business, for them to get your business, you tell them to give something first (clean, cook, clothes, dinner) before you invest your time with them. YOU ONLY HAVE THIS POWER ONCE YOU HAVE HER LUST. She only lusts after the alpha male, I told you how to be him. Once you have that, you have the same power that women have, you can get what you want, you have options, you have people kissing your azz, everything..................
Sexuality is the key. Women use theirs to get what they want, why don't we use ours?
"I've learned to approach, show eye contact, be funny, engage in alot of conversation and what-not. However, the bad boy method teaches the exact opposite! It teaches to make yourself scarce, not to freely offer information, and to make it seem that you don't really even care! Which method should I choose? Is there a way to merge them? Plz help!"
When you do what I said in the other thread, this is what happens. Before, you seen women more as something to be conquered, that's why you wanted to seduce them, run patterns, be ****y funny, or do any method to get her interested. Once you got her interested and had sex you said, "I won! I conquered her!" But in reality, she conquered you. Because she took your time and energy. The energy and time you spent on seduction was a lot, and then you had to take her on the date, (you probably paid for it), you had spend your energy making her exciting and thrilled to get her to fvck, or like you said, using your eye contact, Gunwitch stuff.
When do become the alpha male using the strategy I used, I call it "becoming king" you view women and the world differently. Women are no longer things to be conquered but things to be used ( I don't mean that in a bad way), guys are no longer competition but people to make yourself look better ( I don't mean that in a bad way either) You won't really see this until you did what I did. When you do, women will be like fast food restaurants. You'll have 6 to choose from, and all of the 6 will be fighting for your business, for them to get your business, you tell them to give something first (clean, cook, clothes, dinner) before you invest your time with them. YOU ONLY HAVE THIS POWER ONCE YOU HAVE HER LUST. She only lusts after the alpha male, I told you how to be him. Once you have that, you have the same power that women have, you can get what you want, you have options, you have people kissing your azz, everything..................
Sexuality is the key. Women use theirs to get what they want, why don't we use ours?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
WTF is the "bad boy" method? What you described sounds like the @sshole method.
ROFFL!Francisco d'Anconia said:WTF is the "bad boy" method? What you described sounds like the @sshole method.
:kick::rockon: :trouble: :moon:
GatorBait
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The key is to integrate facets of bad boy behavior, but to put a more "positive" spin on them. Refer to the article I posted in the other bad boy thread.
OMG! That's what started all the trouble in the first place!GatorBait said:The key is to integrate facets of bad boy behavior, but to put a more "positive" spin on them. Refer to the article I posted in the other bad boy thread.
:flowers:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Don Juan
Ok, I'll say this then. Integrating parts of bad boy attitude can be a good thing. But, you've got to ask yourself what your goal is with each particular women, then adapt.Reloaded said:OMG! That's what started all the trouble in the first place!
:flowers:
If you want a one night stand, engage in more conversation, kino, ****y/funny, and try to instantly build attraction and sexual tension. If you've got more time, then you don't need to communicate with them all the time and try so hard to gain their approval.
I don't see what the problem is, everything in the article is something you should be doing regardless of what "method" you practice:
Be more confident and feel as though you're the "catch".
Don't smother the girl. Be a mystery and a challenge.
Exude sexual confidence.
Don't tolerate BS from women.
Keep women guessing. Be more indifferent.
Be more independent. Don't put the rest of your life on hold because of a girl.
All those sound like good traits to me, so what exactly is the problem?
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You asked for help. Being a bad boy isn't a "method", just integrate those traits into whatever method you are currently practicing.Reloaded said:I don't know. Why?
DO YOU KNOW WHY MY FRIEND "SHANE" IS SO DAMN SUCCESSFUL WITH GORGEOUS WOMAN, IT IS BECAUSE HE ACTS LIKE A "KING" AND HE COULDN'T GIVE A FU-CK IF ANY HOT BABE LIKED HIM OR NOT, THAT IS WHY THEY DO AND AS A RESULT HE ALWAYS GETS A "FU-CK" AND HE IS ONE VERY FUSSY MAN WHEN IT COMES TO LOOKS, HE NEVER FU-CKS BELOW A HB8. :yes:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why is this all in caps and written with different grammer then all your other posts?KoalaKing said:DO YOU KNOW WHY MY FRIEND "SHANE" IS SO DAMN SUCCESSFUL WITH GORGEOUS WOMAN, IT IS BECAUSE HE ACTS LIKE A "KING" AND HE COULDN'T GIVE A FU-CK IF ANY HOT BABE LIKED HIM OR NOT, THAT IS WHY THEY DO AND AS A RESULT HE ALWAYS GETS A "FU-CK" AND HE IS ONE VERY FUSSY MAN WHEN IT COMES TO LOOKS, HE NEVER FU-CKS BELOW A HB8. :yes:
oakraiderz2
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Why dont you try to be a good guy. Not many of those these days. That way youll actually get to where you want to go in life, not just with girls.
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But my mother already does that stuff (cook, clean, clothes, dinner), why would I need one of them girls to do that? They would have to give me accomidation that I can move out of here, and live at their place or something rent-free. So, you think this can be extrapolated as follows: I can become an alpha-male, and move out of here by leaching on some broad that has their own place?DonJuanForever said:You'll have 6 to choose from, and all of the 6 will be fighting for your business, for them to get your business, you tell them to give something first (clean, cook, clothes, dinner) before you invest your time with them. YOU ONLY HAVE THIS POWER ONCE YOU HAVE HER LUST. She only lusts after the alpha male, I told you how to be him. Once you have that, you have the same power that women have, you can get what you want, you have options, you have people kissing your azz, everything..................
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This is sickening.
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I hate to tell you this, but there are a lot of successful, rich, businessmen that aren't "good guys". I might not necessarily agree with it, but it's true.oakraiderz2 said:Why dont you try to be a good guy. Not many of those these days. That way youll actually get to where you want to go in life, not just with girls.
I wouldn't suggest a guy ever try to be a "bad boy" just to get women. But, the big problem is that most AFC's are the polar-opposite of a bad boy. They're unconfident wusses who supplicate women to like them. And, once a woman shows an ounce of interest towards them, they end up basing their life around the woman and suffocating them.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.