"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hmm REALLY strange, unreadable chick!

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Ok guys, i've had a lot of experience dealing in girls, but recently one girl that I met is increasssingly strange, and I am wondering if any of yall can interpret her actions.

First off, she's a senior like me in h.s., amazingly hot, but has had a very different high school experience. During freshman through sophomore year, she (let's call her Mary) has been VERY slutty, as in drugs and sex as much as possible. However, as junior year dawned, she became a lot more religious and is now a SUNDAY school teacher of all things...

Her best friend, Jen, is always with her. Recently, my best friend who had previously gone out with Jen started to rekindle things with her. Seeing Mary, i decided to go after her and hung out with all of them. After about two group get-togethers I successfully made out with her. The weird part was that afterwards, for about a week or so, she acted REALLY distant. I backed off and was like i don't have time for this and didn't hang out with her again. However, after that week, she acted like everything was normal and we started to hang out again. I reportedly heard second hand that she "didn't want herself to like me b/c she didn't want a boyfriend..".

My problem with her is that now, whenever my best friend wants to hang out with Jen and I hang out with him and her because Mary is with them, we always make out and seem close. But whenever, i want to hang out with her alone, she wants to invite her friend jen, wtf! This girl blows my mind because she is so detached at times, then seems like she wants to hang out and is interested and then doesn't. Maybe i'm just being naive and not looking to the problem, but does ANYONE have any clues to what is up with this bittttch, Mary, and what i should do to isolate her so I can do more sexual stuff with her???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's not comfortable with you yet.

I know its frustrating, but give it time and patience.
 

Damian

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First of all: Counter-lines
-"I'm not looking for a boyfriend..."
-"Well, thats good, 'cause neither am I!"

Second: Real advice.

You haven't built a strong base of mutual attraction yet. Since she's made out with you, I'd say you did a good job attracting HER.

The key component your missing here, is that SHE needs to attract YOU! This isn't some don juan egotist remark either. You actually need to set up conversations in order to let her feel as if she earned you. This will create less buyers' remorse and increase trust and loyalty. Straight from Mystery Method A3...Here's what you do:

Initiate kino escalation at the beginning of the conversation.
1. Ask her open-ended questions
2. Act impressed and ask her to elaborate
3. Freeze-out
4. Repeat a few times

1. I'll use Mystery's classic line: "So what do you want to be when you grow up? and don't say princess."
2. "Wow, artist, What kind of art are you interested in? Canvas and paper or sculpture?"
3. "Oh my god, that's amazing, I can't even talk to you anymore." And turn around. Incorporate kino escalation take-away.

She will reinitiate, practically guaranteed. Rinse and repeat with different lines, but same overall structure. You'll find that she has more of an attachment with you because she feels that it is a MUTUAL attraction.

-Damian
 
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