"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hmm question

nocluewhattodo

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So theres this girl who ive been flirting with for a week now she obviously likes me ive been doing the whole push pull thing. she absolutely loves cats nd i was texting her earlier and I said cats suckkkk there for grandmas in their 80s. and her response was just. I hate you.
how would you respond to this? just tryin to figure this game out with a lil help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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bump? im trying to figure out how you go about teasing a girl to no avail. my old ways led me to be an AFC i want to know what your guys opinions are.
 

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No response.
Let her wonder if her "I hate you statement" offended you.
Then when you see her act distant..
If she is indeed attracted to you she'll go out of her way to get your attention ..
And its my observation that guys on this board escalate too slow..

The more talking/texting you do the more chance you have to turn her off
So when your certain she's attracted to you, hurry and do as you will with her..
Unless you want a ltr..
 
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