"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hmm, Is this a good sign?

TheEdgeOf

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I've been at this website for about a year now (I only started visiting the forums just recently.) And I think I've really gotten the hang of this whole thing, aside from the occasional screw up (some of you may have read the thread I made a few days ago)

Anyways, I've decided to learn how to play guitar as a hobby and I'm finding that doing even the most basic chords in succession is much harder than picking up woman. I'm actually pretty proud of myself. Or rather disappointed that I suck so badly at guitar lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have always been a proponent of continually improving your life in every area even before I joined here, and this is a good example. Having hobbies and other goals with you give you confidence, pride and self-worth that make picking up women easier, and even when you do fail its obviously much easier to get over when you have other things going on.
 

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yea I thought guitar was hard too. I've been playing keys since I was 7, drums since junior high, but I tried guitar in high school and gave up after a few months

if you wanna see some amazing guitarists, check out this video. Rodrigo y Gabriela. The girl is dope as hell
 

TheEdgeOf

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Dude, I freaking hate chords lol
Screw rhythm

Give me solos, they're so much fun!

EDIT: Oh, and about the video, I hate you.
You're just ruined all my hopes and dreams lol
 
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