So the last time I heard from this girl whom I've been talking to for quite a while now was on Saturday. That night she told me that sh e was going to bed and she'd call me in the morning, whatever. She never called me. She never called me the whole day nor texted me. Very strange because she'd always text me or call me every day for like the past 3 months. So it's been 2 days and I ha ven't heard from her. I so badly want to txt her but I don't know if Is hould..... Maybe it 's her game to see if I contact her because she always calls me and stuff and now she's seeing if I would text/call her. Anyone got any idea what I could text her without coming across as needy? I Don't want to call her because I know she won't answer and I'll just get her voice mail (she works and cant answer phone).
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
hm, she hasn't contacted me and I'm tempted to text/call her...
- Thread starter baurman
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Actually I would text her and say "hows your week so far" 3-4 days later after her last text. Then stop all contact. She might be giving u the sh1t test.
I have a post where a chic did the same thing to me. She would text me like krazy(8 times a day) for about a month. Then we hung out at a lounge. 4 days later she decides to stop texting me. So I text her 3 days later to see how her week was, no response, then I text her the next day then I stopped pursuing.
So two weeks later from my last text she response with saying hi and calling me a punk because I didnt call her job to see if she was alrite. She gave a lame excuse of her phone was broke and she was out of town for about a week. Now she is upset that I stopped communication when she started first. Now she is trying to play the victim of me hurting her lol
So in other words hit her up by text no more than 2 times and or call her but don't leave a voicemail. Good luck with that bro.
I have a post where a chic did the same thing to me. She would text me like krazy(8 times a day) for about a month. Then we hung out at a lounge. 4 days later she decides to stop texting me. So I text her 3 days later to see how her week was, no response, then I text her the next day then I stopped pursuing.
So two weeks later from my last text she response with saying hi and calling me a punk because I didnt call her job to see if she was alrite. She gave a lame excuse of her phone was broke and she was out of town for about a week. Now she is upset that I stopped communication when she started first. Now she is trying to play the victim of me hurting her lol
So in other words hit her up by text no more than 2 times and or call her but don't leave a voicemail. Good luck with that bro.
well she responds to me
"Im working out . .
call you later"
I dunno if or but thats all responding for me till she calls I guess. When she does I don't think I'm gonna mention why she hasn't called the past 3 days. I guess she really was wanting to see if I'd contact her or not.
"Im working out . .
call you later"I dunno if
or but thats all responding for me till she calls I guess. When she does I don't think I'm gonna mention why she hasn't called the past 3 days. I guess she really was wanting to see if I'd contact her or not."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Master Don Juan
Texting a girl with "hey dork" is not sexy, and would seem friend-zonish to me. Thumbs down on that advice.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
we can agree to disagree? the word dork is better said than texted.Vice said: