Hi. I've got a question about anal sex that kinda troubles me. Heard it's one of the easiest ways by which HIV's transmitted during sexual intercourse. I recently met a woman of really awesome physical build with an unbelievable big ass. I'd love to engage in anal sex with her and was wondering if using a condom while engaging in anal sex is effective in terms of preventing HIV/AIDS transmission? I've never before used a condom to engage in anal sex and as a matter of fact this will be my first time. I've read many times that aside from anal sex being the riskiest sexual position with regards to HIV and AIDS, there's always a 90% chance of the condom getting ruptured and breaking during the process. Can someone with some helpful info on this stuff enlighten me on this?
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HIV/AIDS Transmission Through Heterosexual Anal Sex
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Dude you signed up to ask this?
Surely a google search will tell you.
Yes you can attain it during anal sex quicker than vaginal sex - That doesn't mean you won't transmit it during vaginal sex. If she is a carier, it's a chance you'll get it anyway of penetration.
Surely a google search will tell you.
Yes you can attain it during anal sex quicker than vaginal sex - That doesn't mean you won't transmit it during vaginal sex. If she is a carier, it's a chance you'll get it anyway of penetration.
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No condom is the safest form of anal sex, Eric.EricZinny said:So what's the safest solution then, if one's really feeling the urge and desire to do anal sex with a woman of such an attractive physical build?
JohnnyIrish
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If you're really worried, the safest thing would be to have her get tested before you **** her.
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Wear a rubber, and use a ton of lube, that's the safest way to go!
EricZinny said:Many thanks to y'all. French Connect, what sort of lubricant should I use? Got any suggestions?
Butter like in Last tango in Paris.
Might be common sense but remember to change rubbers when you are done with anal sex and move back to vaginal...she can get infected from the condom as well as you could if you go down on her without changing condom before you go back to vaginal intercourse.
CuriousGirl
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Make sure you use a WATER-BASED lube. They are safe with condoms.EricZinny said:Many thanks to y'all. French Connect, what sort of lubricant should I use? Got any suggestions?
Also use Extra Safe condoms, they are thicker and less likely to break and tend to be the ones used for anal.
What makes you think she's got HIV?
I think, or at least I think here, it's illegal for someone to have unprotected sex if they know they have HIV or AIDs.
It's the mixing of bodily fluids that expose you to HIV. If you are just generally worried about anal and contracting HIV you should probably be more worried about contracting common STI's through vaginal sex as that is much more likely if you don't use condoms normally.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Go for Durex, always the safest choice, big brand, they obviously know what they're doing!French Connect, what sort of lubricant should I use? Got any suggestions?