"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hitting On Me Or Being Friendly

AbsolutBeirut

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So I was out shopping at Nordstrom when this HB8 rep comes over to help me out. I was looking for a jacket and she was very instrumental at showing me the good models and telling me how they looked on me. At the same time she started asking me personal questions like: where I am from, where I live, how long I have been living here, what I do for work, where I go out at nights, how many siblings I have. I am bad at reading signals and wonder if that can be construed as an IOI. I didnt end up buying the jacket but had my mind set on a shirt I tried earlier. I proceeded to the checkout and she follows me there while still asking questions. Before leaving she hands me a card in which she wrote her name and phone number (apparently they didnt give her business cards yet) instructing me to call if I wanted the store to reserve the jacket that I liked. I can't tell if she was giving me signals to call her and set up a date with her. What do you guys make of this? are store reps usually that friendly or is she like that because she felt attracted to me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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KontrollerX

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Sounds like she's just trying a bit too hard to be a model employee to me.
 

Maxtro

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Everything up until the card seems like it was all professional good salesman. Is the number she gave you her personal number or the stores?
 

The Sperminator

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Employees are suppose to act friendly towards you but not ask you all those personal questions. She wants you dude. Call her up and ask her if she wants to go out. Worst that can happen is she says no.
 
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