"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hitting On Me Or Being Friendly

AbsolutBeirut

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So I was out shopping at Nordstrom when this HB8 rep comes over to help me out. I was looking for a jacket and she was very instrumental at showing me the good models and telling me how they looked on me. At the same time she started asking me personal questions like: where I am from, where I live, how long I have been living here, what I do for work, where I go out at nights, how many siblings I have. I am bad at reading signals and wonder if that can be construed as an IOI. I didnt end up buying the jacket but had my mind set on a shirt I tried earlier. I proceeded to the checkout and she follows me there while still asking questions. Before leaving she hands me a card in which she wrote her name and phone number (apparently they didnt give her business cards yet) instructing me to call if I wanted the store to reserve the jacket that I liked. I can't tell if she was giving me signals to call her and set up a date with her. What do you guys make of this? are store reps usually that friendly or is she like that because she felt attracted to me?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KontrollerX

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Sounds like she's just trying a bit too hard to be a model employee to me.
 

Maxtro

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Everything up until the card seems like it was all professional good salesman. Is the number she gave you her personal number or the stores?
 

The Sperminator

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Employees are suppose to act friendly towards you but not ask you all those personal questions. She wants you dude. Call her up and ask her if she wants to go out. Worst that can happen is she says no.
 
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