Hitting On Female Employees Where You Are A Regular Customer

[DJnoob]

So this question is about hitting on women who work at malls, fast food, restaurants, retail stores etc... pretty much places where you are a regular.

DO YOU HIT ON THEM/ASK THEM OUT INFRONT of other employees? Or do you isolate away from other employees THEN ask them out?

I am asking this because i don't have enough experience / personal data to determine which is more effective.

Thanks guys.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I'm a regular at some quick-bite restaurants in the city and I talk to some of the people there a lot. I order the same thing every time so they got it memorized by now. None of the women are good looking unfortunately so I've never asked any of hem out. If they were, I'd do it only if they showed some flirtatious behavior back. You have to manipulate the flirting in a way that can lead her to giving you her phone number or Snapchat or something. But I'd tell her to write it down on the receipt though because they can get in trouble for doing anything intimate in the workplace, whether it be with employees (can distract them and lower performance) or customers (can cause them to give free perks which will cost the company money).

In essence, be smooth about it and try not to let other people know what just happened because she can lose her job. I'd only do it if she is being very overt though. If you pull something too soon, she'll think of you as creepy and say in restaurants, you don't want to find spit in your food.

 

[Trump]

DO YOU HIT ON THEM/ASK THEM OUT INFRONT of other employees? Or do you isolate away from other employees THEN ask them out?

You ask them out in front of: other employees, other bosses, other friends, other coworkers, other ex boyfriends, other family members, other lovers.

If you guys are afraid of asking out an employee in front of others, what are going to do if she wants to have sex? You would go into meltdown.

Brutal.

 

[Von]

I did, some employées actually gave me their number.. for me nothing happened

But ask is still asking... do whatever you want. Just stay cool

 

[wifehunter]

I did, some employées actually gave me their number.. for me nothing happened

But ask is still asking... do whatever you want. Just stay cool

Exactly...the chase begins, when you don't chase. Let them come to you. If we learn to let the women persue...we spend less wasted time barking up the wrong tree.

If you're high quality, they'll be checking you out, and attempting to close the gap.

 

[Vivacity]

Personally, I avoid hitting on employees of a business I regularly visit or I am a regular customer of, because most of the time these employees end up being cokc-blockers or try to set you up with their unattractive friends or co-workers. I ignore the employees of the businesses I visit, deliberately. I would rather hit on other customers who visit that business such as myself. If it does not work out, we are all good. Or we may not even see that customer again.

For example, I don't hit on baristas of a neighborhood coffee shop or employees in the front desk of a public library. I would rather hit on other customers who visit the coffee shop or public library.

 

[MrJack]

I've worked in restaurants and places of the sorts in the past and literally every time someone tried to hit on my female coworkers they would come tell me and everyone else that it was creepy...

"Omg this guy at table 15 just tried to ask me out/hit on me it was sooo weird!"

Not sure if these guys were legit just creepy or if the female coworkers just wanted to flaunt that they got attention? Idk.

All I know is most people, where I live, generally find it weird to do that but I suppose if you're a guy with high enough value you could be successful doing this.