rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
Ok lets go back to my place....confusedstate said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hitting on a taken girl.
- Thread starter confusedstate
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
confusedstate
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Well she's single now. Boyfriend was over for thanksgiving and broke up with her out of the blue.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
You have won the quote of the day.Julius_Seizeher said:
She sounds like a real ****ing loser if she just indiscriminately ****s random guys and claims she's in love with a guy after a week. She told you five or six guys but that really means fifteen or sixteen. Dating someone for a week doesn't mean **** but this girl just sounds nutty. Have some standards for your **** dude. If you do **** a taken girl. Play this joint!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2og7YuSg08
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2og7YuSg08
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Isn't every woman taken to some degree? You just have to be taken by a female. Some say that any love is better than no love.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.