"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In the recent movie Hitch..Will Smith unveils it all..guess he too must be referreding to this website or at least the Director of the movie....I was not able to read the preview..so just go my chick along with me..I say Bros..it was quite embarrassing sometimes..because I aplied the same techniques to get to her...

Why on earth they have to make a movie like this..now all the ladies have become aware that we must be referring to some professional help...

Anyway..not that it bothers me...I have my own improvisations..but still..the ideas could linger on .....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I liked it, but thought would actually be better. It really didn't have that much DJ stuff going on .. no challenge, mystery, c&f, teasing etc. It was more about being in the right place at the right time and 'wooing' the woman by taking a unique interest and approach to her.

What's more, the lesson to be told at the end is that it doesn't matter what you do or what game you have. If it's in your gut then go with it and if the attraction is mutual it will take you places. For example, when he tossed his inhaler before kissing her ... this surprised the date doctor that she still went for him because she found it adorable.
 
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It's a good film, with some good techniques.

But it is not a DJ intructional film.

It is a feel good romantic comedy.
 
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Originally posted by ANIRBAN
..I say Bros..it was quite embarrassing sometimes..because I aplied the same techniques to get to her...
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What the fvck do they want; we can't be our selfs, we can't use the techniques, if we act like men, they call us jerks and idiots....
arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr PISSES ME OFF
 
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always act like a man, you are a man, never feel bad about being a man.

make yourself a man and then be yourself. Who cares if they call you a jerk at least you're a man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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