hit rock bottom (even for me)

[Legday]

-roommate is dropping out next week.. when that happens:


-80% of my words will be used on the janitor for about 40secs total a week
-15% will be for the food service people to say "thank you"
-5% for random occurences that may require a word

freshman in a large uni with no friends/gf at middle of spring semester.

wtf, i lift too and look like it.

i will never get a gf or have friends, i spend my days now just eating lifting and waiting to die... slowly...

 

[Tiguere]

If i was god ill give you late stage cancer... Youll be in bed surrounded by your relatives. Youll never feel lonely again.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Two things stick out in this post...

...wtf, i lift too and look like it....

Whenever I see threads of men complaining about how bad their situation is the one thing I see time and time again are statements like...

"I'm well dressed and look good". "I've got white teeth and smell nice". etc, etc...

As far as I'm concerned statements like these reveal the REAL problem...

All these statements express passivity...do you expect people to like you and want to be around you because of how you look?

Or are you just afraid of taking action?

I'm gonna communicate on a another level here...so there is a possibility that you won't understand a word of what I'm typing...but maybe you already do, or one day you will.

Too many people are concerned with what they see around them, but what they see is merely the consequence of something far greater. What is VISIBLE is created by the INVISIBLE.

For example you posted:

...freshman in a large uni with no friends/gf at middle of spring semester...

I bet the fact that you have no friends and no gf concerns you, I mean who won't be concerned by this?

But the reality is this is merely an EFFECT...a symptom...

It is NOT the cause of your problem.

IMO the cause of your problem is you have lost control over your life.

No one is going to be your friend because you have no friends...

No girl is going to be your gf because you have no gf...

No one is going to do anything because your life is NOT their life...

To change your life YOU have to change your life...

If nothing is happening in your life MAKE THINGS HAPPEN....

And you CAN make things happen...because you WANT things to happen.

Where there is desire there is POWER.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Sounds like a typical bb.com miscer....

Join a frat. All the friends you can make and girls you can bang.

You have zero responsibilities right now - enjoy it.

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