"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dutchmaster

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So there was this girl I hooked up at school, before we left for break around the 22nd we got in a very heated sexual text conversation (50 shades of grey kind of sh1t lol) and she mentioned later on in the conversation how bad she wants me and stuff like that (she left home before me -.-) SO anyway, I figured her IL must be sky high after that and haven't hit her up once over break yet. I actually forgot about her for a bit until she popped up on my news feed today. My question is should I hit her up before going back to school? (22nd) Just to make sure everythings still in tact? Or just let it be because if it aint broke dont fix it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PlayHer Man

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Hit her up when you're ready to f*ck her. If she is too far away to f*ck, then there is no reason to talk to her.

Unless you are seeking a relationship.

But if she gets the relationship vibe she will make you wait for the sex or she might just flake on it all together. Girls seek 2 types of guys in college:

1. Guys who can f*ck them good

2. Guys to date seriously

Most girls are only looking for ONE of those. Not both.

Which one are you?
 
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Contact her with a purpose, a goal. Meetup, drinks, bang, whatever. Don't just text for texting. If you literotica you can find it online. Time to make a move and get this lil ho ho b-tween the sheets to smoke her salmon!
 
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