"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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History Of Pickup in the MEDIA

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BACK in the day it began with a TV show called, what else.......the dating game. There were 3 potential suitors and one girl. There was a partion between the 3 eligible batchelors and the chic. The female would ask a series of lame questions and the one with the coolest answers would win a date. Interesting note-some famous people were on the show, including the legendary MIKE TYSON.

In the late 80's Chuck Wollery had us returning to dating in front of America in 2 and 2. This time they allowed the audiece to vote who the contestant should go on a date with electronically. When dates did not click made for good TV.

Almost a decade later, TV brought us Roger Lodge's Blind Date, elimidate, and a few other juicy Jerry Springer like entertainment shows. The emphasis here were the dates that did not get along.

The 2000's gave birth to Reality SHOWS where viewers could see inside the life of average joes seeking romance. (who wants to marry a millionaire, outback Jack, the batchelor, beauty & the geek, etc)

A few years later-continued the previous years trend, only this time offered some tips and plausible scenarios. The Keys to the VIP room, The Pickup Artirt, Can't get a date,confessions of a matchmaker just to name a few.

Popular shows exploited the sedction community into the limelight. CSI MIAMI, THE MENTALIST dedicated a whole episode to seducing women. Movies also jumped on board the seduction popularity as depicted in bigscreen movies like: Magnolia, Hitch, He's just not that into you, etc. Look for this trend to continue with major production company doing an adaptation of other popular trendy seduction gurus.

Today we see viewers tuning in via the Net with popular sites like YOUTUBE to see live pickups, get tips, watch their favorite guru and even post their comments.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What's the point of this thread? I can't actually see how anyone is actually benefiting from this information...?
 

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"Hey baby, what's your sign" is a silly pickup line now and will get you clowned. 30 years ago, you could probably get some ass using it. it helps to understand the history of the game to be more effective today.
 

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This is one of those threads which does nothing more than state the obvious with no meaning.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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