"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bungo Pony

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Unless one exists that I don't know about, I think it would be interesting to have a section on the history of this site - how it got started, what was the motivation behind it, how the first incredibly knowledgeable posters on here came to know about this site and helped it form it into what it is today.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A little section about the history of the legend of Don Juan would also be good. Many people here do not know, where the term comes from, and what it means. That is why I saw annoyed posts about mentionings of the term, which didn´t go with the meaning it has in this forum but rather with the one that comes from the legend. A little literature lesson could clear things up.
 
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