"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HIIT and Rippetoe's?

Cry For Love

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I'm currently on Rippetoe's program and while it has been excellent for gaining lifting numbers, I find that it's hard to combine with any kind of cardio. Squatting 3 times a week is a big workload for the lower body and doesn't really leave time for legs to recover and do HIIT on the off days. Which is a real pity, since I consider endurance an important trait too.

I know some guys are going to storm in and say how cardio is pointless and you cant gain weight while doing it and you should either consider on bulking and lifting or cutting with cardio and lighter lifting, but for me, as a skinny guy that needs lots of work in both areas (endurance and lifting) omitting either is out of the question. Which leads me to the thought that perhaps some other workout would be better to provide adequate growth in both areas. Any tips?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WhitePimp

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Holy shnikes, I literally had this exact same question and was going to post it just now.
 

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I did this but HIIT only once a week which is probably less than you are doing. I Just upped my eating/creatine/protein, stretched and tried to suck it up. However this might not be an option for you. If you're not interested in creatine for faster recovery someone more experienced here can probably help.
 

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I'd stick to 30-45 min of walking or walking on a treadmill at an incline a few times a week. And i'd especially not sprint as the exercise if i was insisting on doing HIIT. Walking will help with bodyfat and leg recovery.
 

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HIIT will be better than slower cardio, easier stuff.
Twice a week.
No worries.
Eat right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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future_strongguy

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One or the other. Doing strength training three times a week is too much if you want to be fit. An athlete can't do something like Rippetoe's 3x5 during a season. Even during the off season he shouldn't do it, because he is neglecting his conditioning, power, and endurance. He will leave all his strength in the weight room with nothing to show in the battlefield.

Being a tennis player, I do the stuff in Ross's book (Infinite Intensity):

Day 1: conditioning blending strength + conditioning
Day 2: Sprints and core
Day 3: Strength training
Day 4: GPP and core
Day 5: rest

The point of training like this is to improve strength, conditioning, speed, and power at the same time. If you work solely on strength for a few weeks, then conditioning for a few weeks, then speed for a few weeks, then power for a few weeks, then by the time you are back doing strength training you will have lost a significant amount of strength. This is why this type of training is superior for athletes.

You need to manage your schedule to your specific needs. If you want to become strong while neglecting conditioning and endurance, then Rippetoes stuff is good (it's a great "get strong quick" program). When I'm slowing down drastically during a tennis match on Friday because I squatted heavy on Wednesday, no one is going to care that I can squat big numbers.

In Ross's words, a strength workout that leaves you sore for 3 days isn't helping you become a better athelete.

Your choice :up: I don't want to be a one trick wonder :cheer: Ross did 3x bw (close enough, 495 lbs at 178 lbs bodyweight) dead lift with bad form. Later he said that he could "count the number of times I have done dead lift on my fingers."

Edit: Walking isn't for someone who wants to be "conditioned and fit." If you want to be fast, strong, and powerful, you need to train quickly.
 

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if your goal is to bring up your conditioning while strength training you should look into sled pulling, check ironaddicts.com for more info.
 
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Dude, HIIT is the sh1t.. seriously, use it pretty religiously. What I do is run at about a 7:30-7:45 pace as my base/rest pace and shift up from a 6:45 to 6:00 pace. Usually 30 seconds hard and 30 rest, repeat for about 8-15 minutes. Interval Training is proven to melt fat and I am a huge believer based on my past experience.
 
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