"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Highschool Victory Lap, don't know people, how to play it?

smithersonb11

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Alright, title basically says it. Going back for one more year, which means I don't know too many people. Most of them know of me, mostly the girls, but I never really talked to many of them.

Basically I have one year left, I want to have as much fun as possible. I dont want it to be a boring year just because I dont know anyone. My schools pretty ****ing cliquey, but whatever.

It's pretty vague but any advice helps, I feel like being really direct and loud might no be a good thing so early on
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LearningSlowly

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Do well and pass every class. Socially, just act like you know a little more than everyone else. Have alcohol, have connections, go to parties, have fun.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Do well and pass every class. This i cannot stress enough. Learn to gain a work ethic while in hs, so that you can succeed in college and actually do something with your life. Socially, just act like you know a little more than everyone else. Have alcohol, have connections, go to parties, have fun. Looking back now, I can see how much of a fvck i was in hs. If only I could re-enter hs as who i am today, i would be the most popular mother fvcker. It starts and ends with confidence. You walk into a class and you don't know anyone, who gives a fvck. Sit down and quickly pop your head behind and say 'what's up'. Look to your left and say, 'heeey'. Hs is filled with 90% socially akward fvcks trying to be hard. Who would you rather be, the kid who sits at his desk with his legs sprawled and his head looking down, trying to act cool, or the mother fvcker that sits down, whips his head around and starts conversations. You've heard it before, and it'll sound like more bs until you get older and finally realize what it means....but you're thinking too much. Just do it. Don't think about doing it. Do it. I don't think about getting #s, but when an opportunity pops up, i just do it. I don't stress myself out over it. btw don't try to fvck chicks. If you really want to fvck hs chicks, focus 100% on reputation, don't try to fvck them, you're the cool dude, so they'll try to fvck u.
That's my random rant of about 20 pages of information in 1 paragraph. I'm bored and home alone :)))))))))
 

AlexLefty

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LearningSlowly said:
Do well and pass every class. This i cannot stress enough. Learn to gain a work ethic while in hs, so that you can succeed in college and actually do something with your life. Socially, just act like you know a little more than everyone else. Have alcohol, have connections, go to parties, have fun. Looking back now, I can see how much of a fvck i was in hs. If only I could re-enter hs as who i am today, i would be the most popular mother fvcker. It starts and ends with confidence. You walk into a class and you don't know anyone, who gives a fvck. Sit down and quickly pop your head behind and say 'what's up'. Look to your left and say, 'heeey'. Hs is filled with 90% socially akward fvcks trying to be hard. Who would you rather be, the kid who sits at his desk with his legs sprawled and his head looking down, trying to act cool, or the mother fvcker that sits down, whips his head around and starts conversations. You've heard it before, and it'll sound like more bs until you get older and finally realize what it means....but you're thinking too much. Just do it. Don't think about doing it. Do it. I don't think about getting #s, but when an opportunity pops up, i just do it. I don't stress myself out over it. btw don't try to fvck chicks. If you really want to fvck hs chicks, focus 100% on reputation, don't try to fvck them, you're the cool dude, so they'll try to fvck u.
That's my random rant of about 20 pages of information in 1 paragraph. I'm bored and home alone :)))))))))
 
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