"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Highschool, the easiest/best time to DJ? I missed my chance lol

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Man. I'm 20 now, and as I look back to highschool. I wish I had known about this site! All those hot girls would have been so much easier to understand/get if I knew how to become what I've always wanted to be. Now that they're all gone on their seperate paths in life, you can't just track them down (they probably wouldn't recognize me if I did haha). I'm telling all of you youngsters out there, highschool is the absolute easiest and best time to practice this stuff. I kick myself everyday for being such a clueless idiot with girls through most of my highschool time.

I'm not saying that it's hopeless now, obviously there are tons of places to meet chicks. However, highschool was the easiest by far, with a really good selection too. If I can go back in time a few years and be the same person as I am today, I would be the mack of my school!

it's frusterating but hey, some of us just catch on late.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FreeStyleZ

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No, college is.

Stop dwelling in the past and realize that the easiest time for you is going to be right now.
 
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College is MUCH easier...Hotter girls, better parties, more freedom.
 
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High School is probably the best time to start being a DJ but college is the best time to be the DJ. Many more women in college and parties:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no way dude, hs girls are immature hoes, if you dj or do stuff with lots of girls rumors fly, and ur rep goes down the drain, and most girls also have their minds made up about you already since you've been going to school for 9-12 year, I cant wait for COLLEGE!
 
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High School - 0 Girlfriends and 1 case of friend zone oneitus

College - Gone out with 7 for varying amounts of times so far :D

I'm not into bagging 20 chicks a month, but man, it is really easy to get college girls! I've literally had to dodge a few that liked me, but I didn't. Sometimes I wish I had a second shot at HS, because with what I know now, I bet I could have gotten what was considered one of the hottest 3 girls in our grade. She ended up going out with a freckle faced dufus, and even then I thought, "I'm better then this bozo" lol. But my fault then was lack of action. Not so anymore.

However, as others mentioned, focus on the now, march into the future!
 
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Well guys, no sh!t if you knew this now it would be great. Everyone knows that. But it is what you Do NOW that matters.

I love college. No cliques. More BETTER LOOKING girls. More freedom and more fun.



P.S. I am thinking about stopping by my old HS one day, seein how many chicks i could tease ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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