"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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highlighting my hair...should i?

shydude

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Alright i wanna highligh my hair for the first time, my hair is blak now and i wanna do blonde highlights.. I wanna ask you guys for advise if its a good descision I am making. I dont know if its right for the guy to highlight lol... PLz help
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SexinEar

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lol post a picture so we can get an idea of what youd look like with highlights. without a picture tho, id say highlights are kinda gay. just get a good cut
 

Skilla_Staz

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Yeah, some people look good some look like sh*t. When my hair was shaggy I got highlights. It looked sweet, now that my hair is buzzed, highlights would look 100% retarded.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Charm&Style

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bro juss get those colored hair gels that wash out.


save your self from humilation.


tanx.
 

cuzza

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Depends on your haircut... I'm thinking about having highlights, I'm still undecided though. Not blonde, my hair is dark brown, prolly a coupla shades lighter.
 

shydude

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I took the risk, it looks pretty sweet, blak and kinda yelowish highlights. It matches, Thx for everyone advise. :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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