"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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asdfghjkl

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I thought this could be kinda interesting to see what everyone is like on here. And i guess put number of votes recieved under it.


My highest is an 8.6 with 196 votes and still counting
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Skilla_Staz

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Never did it, but I've made #1 on buddypic, NUMEROUS times.

Wow, I feel like a dork.
 

SamMalone

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I have a 9.9 My picture is of my in black and white w/cool sunglasses and my shirt is off. Now that I have the highest score here I know I'm a stud my life is complete.

C'mon.
 

dakota

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for what its worth...
after 2129 votes I am at 7.2. All in all pretty good for being 39 years old.
 

Abbott

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I have two accounts, each with one picture. The higher scoring one peaked at 8, when I had about 100 votes. But it's now down to 6 with 1,181 votes. However, I sometimes think that I can do better in terms of picture quality.

Now why aren't people posting links?

I'm going to go out on a limb and post mine. And I'm not even physically attractive.

Without further ado...

Yours Truly, on Hot or Not

By the way, this picture is the higher scoring one.


Ben
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Shiftkey

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I've posted a few different pictures. The highest I've gotten is 9.4, the lowest is 7.0

But that was a few years ago.
 

qweretyuiopas

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pump you look sad in that pic, shoulders are forward like you were forced into taking that picture. yeah upload a better pic dude, maybe one with you and yo boys having fun.

Me I dont have a pic on that site.

lol i spent about 10 min voting on chicks there, so many attention *****s lol the better they look the lower I rate them, they heads already big enough. If I see a chick that i think people will mark 8 9 or 10 I give her a 1, it may not do much in the long run but who knows it may bring her hotair ballon head back down to the ground lol. The chicks everybody gives a 1 2 3 or 4 I give them a 10 just to give them a confidence booster.
 
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