"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Highest HotorNot score
- Thread starter asdfghjkl
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Wow, I feel like a dork.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Now why aren't people posting links?
I'm going to go out on a limb and post mine. And I'm not even physically attractive.
Without further ado...
Yours Truly, on Hot or Not
By the way, this picture is the higher scoring one.
Ben
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
But that was a few years ago.
PumpNightmare
Don Juan
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Me I dont have a pic on that site.
lol i spent about 10 min voting on chicks there, so many attention *****s lol the better they look the lower I rate them, they heads already big enough. If I see a chick that i think people will mark 8 9 or 10 I give her a 1, it may not do much in the long run but who knows it may bring her hotair ballon head back down to the ground lol. The chicks everybody gives a 1 2 3 or 4 I give them a 10 just to give them a confidence booster.