Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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iwanttofight

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I am trying to think of a list of things that will give me high value in the eyes of a women. I am talking about all kinds of value such as sexual value, social value, ect... From this list I will try to work on each and everyone so I can become the best version of me I can be.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So you want to be the best person you can be for yourself or for women (of whom, each have their own values)? Think about your objective for a minute then ask the question again when you've got your priorities in order...
 

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iwanttofight said:
I am trying to think of a list of things that will give me high value in the eyes of a women. I am talking about all kinds of value such as sexual value, social value, ect... From this list I will try to work on each and everyone so I can become the best version of me I can be.
Sounds like a poser list to me. :kick:

Do things that bring about self-value first....
 

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iwanttofight said:
I am trying to think of a list of things that will give me high value in the eyes of a women. I am talking about all kinds of value such as sexual value, social value, ect... From this list I will try to work on each and everyone so I can become the best version of me I can be.
Your focus should be on coming up with a list that will give you high value in your eyes. If your doing you and your comfortable in your own skin women will naturally find that attractive.
 
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