"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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High value guys - what makes you high value?

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Really? REALLY???? Capitalism is built on exploitation rofl your sounding like a socialist now... not that it's a bad thing, but that's not how our economy works.
Actually, it is given out.

76% of the United States economy is service sector.

Healthcare - money goes to doctors, nurses, and other hospital staff

Financial - all the employees of the banks, and employees of insurance companies, etc.

Food service - servers, bartenders, hostesses, cooks, busboys, etc.

The problem, as far as value goes, is that these are not always high paying jobs.

So if you can make above the $50,000/year mark, even that is a decent sign of value.

Now if you can make $100,000/year, that is even more value.

And if you are self-employed and making $300,000/year, that is INSANE value in this society.

Let alone people that make millions.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Actually, it is given out.

76% of the United States economy is service sector.

Healthcare - money goes to doctors, nurses, and other hospital staff

Financial - all the employees of the banks, and employees of insurance companies, etc.

Food service - servers, bartenders, hostesses, cooks, busboys, etc.

The problem, as far as value goes, is that these are not always high paying jobs.

So if you can make above the $50,000/year mark, even that is a decent sign of value.

Now if you can make $100,000/year, that is even more value.

And if you are self-employed and making $300,000/year, that is INSANE value in this society.

Let alone people that make millions.
Depends on where you are in this nation is argue in any major metropolis on the coasts 50k a year is nothing considering rent for a 1 bedroom is like 3500
 
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