"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I recently downloaded an e-book called Without Embarrassement Seduction: How the Game is Played from www.highstatusmale.com and I highly recommend it.

Over the last 10 years I have dated and slept with over 100 women as well as having bought and read Speed Seduction, Double Your Dating, Doc Love's System as well as read How to Succeed with Women by Lois and Copeland and another book by the same title by Tony Badalamenti as well as Being a Man in a Woman's World, 10 Secrets of Success with Beautiful Women and others.

Most of these books and systems have thier plus points with respect to making valid claims but somewhere they fall short with respect to presenting the type of mind set and the background reasons for that mind set.

For example the mind set of DYD is that women need to be controlled. SS suggests that women need to be manipluated through mind control. Doc Love's System suggests that men remain passsive and have women come to them. The focus of Being a Man seems to be getting angry with women when they do not behave or offer us what we want and then through anger force women to offer us sex, relationships etc.

Somewhere on the passive - aggressive continium most of these systems or appraoches either use a highly passive or aggressive method of succeeding with women, either which really works.

Over the years I have seen that women do not respond to a passive male who simply waits for her to initiate contact when she wants him to do so. On the other hand women also tend to run away from men who act impatient and try to force her into sex etc.

A right balance of taking action and making your intent known to her but not being overaly aggressive when she says no or hesitates seems to be the key. She knows what you want but you are not going to force her into anything before she is ready - a balance of confidence and courage and patience.

This e-book suggests using that balance and shows you how to do it and hence it has no secrets other than a sex trick at the end that most people do not know about. Tha fact that it has no secrets actually leds in tremedous credibility as it shows a simple step by step approach based on a woman's conscious and subconscious mind based on balance and conducting yourself with respect and courage.
Its a highly wirthwhile $24 you'll spend.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i didn't find that e-book helpful. but that's my opinion.
i purchased that e-book maybe a year b4 i checked out david d. and mystery's material. david d. and mystery's material was sooooo much better
 
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