"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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High Social Proof to Chicks garuanteed

everywomanshero

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I've found a new technique for obtaining high social proof.

If you're white the easiest way to accomplish this is to be seen with attractive black women. Before you dismiss my ideas, I challenge you to make out with a hot black chic in a crowded, trendy bar. Now watch how much attention and approached you get. Go back a week later and only dance or make out with white females. If you try this I think your findings should be similar to mine. I have to admit this could be area specific, and it does work for me here.

Further studies led me to create two profiles: One was a black male and one a white male. Both had similar occupations, quotes, etc. I had both send similar msgs to women in the same area. I emailed 100 profiles each. The black profile got only about twice as many replies as the white one. However, the difference is the black profile got consistent return emails and high interest levels compared to the white profile even though they were saying similar things.

I know some KBJ will try to dismiss this as racism or some crap, but get off the computer and try this in the field and you'll see this shyt comes from real life. I am sorry if the truth isn't always what we'd like to see. I only care about what works, not what is politically correct at this momment in time.

At least in the midwest, I can verify that black is in right now fellas. If you're white and you want awesome social proof, make sure you're seen in the trendiest clubs with hot black gals. Personally, I just keep the hot black gals lol. however, if you have black gals that only want to be friends be sure to take them out dancing with you and they will increase the number of whte gals who approach you 3 fold at least.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ace of Flames

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but like.... i dont like black girls..... so...... i wasted my time reading this....... i guess....... i'll just do what i always do..... go for the latinas!!!

there are barely any white girls i like at all. and im white. go figure.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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I wouldnt say black is in. Lmao thats such a ridiculous thing to say. Its an age old rule that being with an attractive women will make other women in the proximity jealous/curious. With an attractive black women I could see it being much more powerfull. Recently I've seen alot of black chicks that are giving me looks, more-so than white women.
 

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welcome back again JC...

It says your the newest member, and you have 440 posts:p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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belividere

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I'm a white guy and have dated quite a few black girls in my day. I didn't date them for attention though, I actually like them. I can tell you that this does happen but then again it happens no matter what color of girl your dating. If you are dating a hot girl and other girls notice then they will start to give you more attention. Since biracial couples aren't seen very often it seems that you get noticed more and therefore get more attention.

The last time I dated a real sexy black girl we would hit up trendy clubs every few weeks. It never failed we would get our picture taken from a photography and wind up on a night life or club website. That site was kind of funny that we were being put out as the inter-racial poster couple.
 

Gonzalo

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So what should we call this, "racial proof"?
 

john_1234

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you'll gain social proof if you're hand in hand w/ ANY hot ass chick regardless of her being black, white, asian, orange, etc.
 

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My experience working in the ghetto is that it is dangerous to live in that area. Girls are attracted to any guy who risks their life or does things that are risky. Dealing with drugs is a risky business, the money and the risk of getting arrested by the cops maybe attractive to some. With all the rap portraying blacks as gangsters, it definietly gives the black population as being dangerous.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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