"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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High Sex Count -VS- High "Body" Count

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This past weekend, myself and three buddies were hangin out playing pool and drinking a few beers while discussing our favorite topic; girls. As the night progressed, the oldest of the group (24) asked what our preferences were when it came to sex; having consistent sex with a few established females such as girlfriends, ex's, and sex buddies; or being on the prowl having sex with new and many different women? We all thought this was a very interesting question because it compared what we like to call a "high sex count" (consistent sex with one or a couple of girls) to a "high body count" (sex with alot of girls in general). Myself personally, I'm 22 and have had sex with only 5 girls (3 GF's and 2 FB's); however, I've had sex ALOT of sex. Currently I have three sources coming from an ex and a 2 "friends" I hang out with. I'm also actively trying to add 2 more of my friends to a "consistency list" if you will so that I can enhance my "team" from 3 to 5. But going back to my buddy's question, I answered with wanting sex on a regular basis with an already established and ready set of 3 girls. All three of my buddies on the other hand want "new puzzy" every chance they can get it and prefered the pursuit of layin many girls.

I thought I'd pose this same topic to da forum to hear the differences in opinion; consistent sex with one or an established set of girls (raising your sex count) -VS- being on the lookout to having sex with a bunch of girls (raising your body count).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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for me it ties into the quality of the chick.

If she has a great personality and we gel - then I'd take the consistant sex - but if I have not meet anyone who interest's me, I'll go for new pvssy all the time over FB pvssy.
 

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Make room for both, there's never any problem with swimming in two different pools *indoor on a cold day and outdoor on a warm day*.. You keep your options open and opportunity open.. If you disagree then ask your self another question.. Would you eat the same three meals everyday for the rest of your life? I say hell not, get down with switching it up and touch up on those cravings once in a while.. It's a balanced diet you might say..

Belair
 

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Say you have sex once a day.

Would you want it to be the same chick everyday?

Would you want it to be a different chick everyday?

That's what this argument will boils down to.

I'll choose a different chick everyday. It would never get old.
 

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I'd kinda mess with the ones I want over and over but keep adding girls to my stable. For example

1 day meet a hb#1 then 1 week later hit the other girl if I like turn into a fb or MLTR and add to my stable (now have 2 girls into my stable) next 3 girls didn't like there sex game so move on to the next 1 who I then add to my stable. Most I'd probably try and kepe is 7 or 8 girls at a time. (that includes Fbs and MLTRs)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The average American male has 7.5 sex partners before he is middle age. I would say, when you reach a dozen you'll start to feel that it's enough, and you'll have tried the whole range from bad to great. If at that point a guy would say no to a good relationship just to get more notches on his belt, he doesn't have his priorities straight.

Girls will get an empty feeling inside and feel dirty if they have sex with too many men; this is well-known to therapists. This is also true with men however, although it takes us longer to reach that state. But make sure you don't reach it.

A related piece of advice: if a woman ever asks you how many women you have slept with and it's more than twelve, you should say twelve. :)
 

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Junk thread.

You've got guys with approach anxiety who want to justify that by saying they WANT to keep hitting the same pouch.

And you've got theorists.

Ask anyone who actually gets laid, and knows that its easy to lay a new chick, what he wants and he'll tell ya, new *****.

We're at this site for 'seducing and attracting women' not 'seducing and attracting a woman'.

New ***** for me.

three12.
 

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New p***y is ALL good...

But there's nothing like a girl that's SO comfortable with you that SHE grabs you and growls "F**k me you slvt..."
 

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True princes of the night live for the ONS. Having gf's is alright but the mercenary attitude of gaming girls with no lead time and f*ck closing is a much more difficult art in my opinion. Though it can be noted that you have to have stamina to keep girls around you for long periods of time, espeically ones you're having sex with (coupled with the ability to get more girls) because you'll get bored.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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One-night stands are fun. But I hit a limit after some time, and decided you shouldn't let the desire for ONS keep you from getting into a fulfilling relationship, if you see a chance for it.

Damn, dawg, I guess that makes me less of a man. And look at that thread about the guy who is getting engaged; what a chump, huh? :rolleyes:
 

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I'd rather have a High Sex count if I had to choose.
 

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I'm 19 and have had sex with eight different girls, all in the past year or so. Lost my virginity on my 18th birthday. Banged my first gf plenty for a couple months...then went thru a period of different partners, none of which lasted too long (not more than a month or so)...kinda out of the need to feel like I could go out and bang numerous girls. Since then, I've been able to get over that feeling of needing to do that.

I've been dating my current gf for a few months now and must say that I actually really love having sex with just her. I'm in the position right now where I could have sex with a couple other girls (kinda FB's but not really established), but it's better with my gf.

I feel really comfortable with her and feel like I really "know" her in a way. It hasn't become "old" by any means.
 

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WORKEROUTER said:
I'm 19 and have had sex with eight different girls, all in the past year or so.
When it rains it pours I guess?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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