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High School vs Adult Life

Drumstick

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I'm in high school, which is why I do almost all of my posting in that board. Most PUA stuff is written by adults for adult interactions though.

What exactly is the difference in the dynamics between high school and the adult world?

What is the best way to capitolize on that different dynamic?

Or perhaps there is no difference at all :O
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Snow Plowman

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I've talked about this many times...

Basically High School is 100x easier than adult life. High School I was getting laid with this like it was nothing, if I was the person I am now back in High School I could've fuked every hot chick I ever wanted and even a few school staff.

The difference is that you don't need to # close you can easily pull a chick in a isolated part of the school, or go to your house/her house after school. You'll be able to see them everyday for 4 years assuming they never leave that school, so you can basically go through her whole social circle if you wanted.

My way that I had ALL chicks attracted was the social proof...
- I had female bodyguards that I walked arm in arm with
- I had a social circle that brought the party and every we go people seen us having fun
- I had a chick I married in class and for the whole school year I called her my wife, eventually broke up with her and got a new wife.
- Many chicks would come up to me all throughout the day for hugs, to say hi, etc

Eventually everyone who didn't know me, wanted to know me. I talked to many women at the same time, I was very sexual and escalated a whole lot.

Escalation is the only thing that has carried over into my adult life, because day game I escalate hardcore and the night game I've done so far...lets just say I could've made out with a chick the first 2mins in, and I only did 2 sets.

Most of my beliefs, mindset, thought patterns and behavior patterns have changed, which is why if I was in high school right now...I'd have fuked every hot chick in that school because at the time I had the HIGH value and was even overqualified.
 

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Hey Snow, I enjoyed your story man :)
You would make a good fairy-tale writer.

LOL female bodyguards, your "wife" - I would have never thought of these you got a good imagination bro.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
I've talked about this many times...

Basically High School is 100x easier than adult life.
Hey Snow. How many other guys were doing what you were doing in HS? If you were the only one do you really think that High School is easier than adult life?
 

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The ****...adult life is 100x easier for me.

The clicks are gone, girls look better, life has humbled many people who thought too much of themselves, and a slew of other behaviors and observations.

If I could turn back the hands of time...

It's all a matter of perception, though.
 

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Fresh to death seems more right.

Most guys I know, who are cool, don't get any at ALL. They usually just hook up with girls from other schools, or most hook up with girls in LOWER GRADES.

I don't know what utopia snow plowman is in, but if he's right, I'll never hook up with a chick in my entire life.

But usually guys who bloom early and score alot in high school have a harder time in the real world. Too bad for them. Hopefully I'm a "late bloomer".
 

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DJVladdy said:
Hey Snow, I enjoyed your story man :)
You would make a good fairy-tale writer.

LOL female bodyguards, your "wife" - I would have never thought of these you got a good imagination bro.
lol, I didn't come up with the thought of it...it's been around for awhile in these parts...I do however tend to have a crazy imagination. Especially marrying the chick in art class and then seeing a jewelry sign and stating I was making the ring...lol, funny sh!t.

Maxtro said:
Hey Snow. How many other guys were doing what you were doing in HS? If you were the only one do you really think that High School is easier than adult life?
Well my cousin who is a natural and was 19 back when I was still a junior, he told me how easy it was for him in high school and to get as many women as you can because out of high school it's harder.

I know a natural who claimed to have laid some Outrageous #...I'm not sure exactly how much...it wasn't lower than 100 and no higher than 1,000. He stated that everyday he goes home and has sex, he never jerked off a day in his life so he had to get laid everyday.

I knew a few other naturals who were laying chicks left and right, at least 5-6. Then there were other naturals who just didn't have the closer mentality.

NOW, while I haven't spoke to most of them in awhile, I do know there still getting laid at there college, but that's still sort of school.

For me it was more of transitioning out of high school and realizing that it was different than adult life.

Day Game: I'm getting flaked out my ass, and have to tweak a few things...I could get same day lays though.

Night Game: This is very limited right now but the times I have got in or went, I was having good results.

But honestly if I was at the skill level that I was back then I wouldn't be able to do anything right now. I escalate REALLY quick now, which is what mainly helps me. After being out of school for 8 months now, I basically now started going hardcore again and gaining more and more experience. Only reason I might have been able to get laid just as much as college, was because I used to get opened on the street about 1-2 times a day, but my mindset sort of shifted again so I don't get that no more.

fresh_to_death said:
The ****...adult life is 100x easier for me.

The clicks are gone, girls look better, life has humbled many people who thought too much of themselves, and a slew of other behaviors and observations.

If I could turn back the hands of time...

It's all a matter of perception, though.
Maybe it's a perception, to me there are still social circles but your not aware of it unless your in a club because you don't see these people everyday. Girls are of course better lol. The reason I thought it was easier was because girls in high school just ran after the shiny thing. In my case I was the shiny thing, so many chicks wanted to meet me, but I was overqualified and didn't know. So the chicks were actually intimidated by me and only if I opened them did I ever meet them.

For me Adult life goes like this
1. Meet (Solid Game is a must because it's too easy to get flakes...)
2. Instadate/Venue Change/# close (This is assuming you was able to convey your personality with out her walking away)
3. Day2/Extract Home (This is assuming you covered the whole "Meet")

Certain situations chicks are in a rush, constantly being engaged and disengaged, locked up, emotions are spiked too high and they flake, etc. At times you can't get the instadate because there in a rush, you might not get the # close because there married or BF lives with them, or they will give it and just flake. Generally on a day2 you can extract easily, unless you can't even get her to meet up.

Back in high school I knew I'd see the chick every weekday so all I had to do was meet them that day, I could venue change and instadate anytime because they aren't doing anything, there in school. Extract to a isolated part of the school or there house after school, or cut school and close at there house. The logistics were perfect, only certain chicks you'd be able to do that with during the day time.

Night game, you got more competition, where in school you don't have any competition. The popular people knew me because I messed with many girls.

LostAndConfused said:
Fresh to death seems more right.

Most guys I know, who are cool, don't get any at ALL. They usually just hook up with girls from other schools, or most hook up with girls in LOWER GRADES.

I don't know what utopia snow plowman is in, but if he's right, I'll never hook up with a chick in my entire life.

But usually guys who bloom early and score alot in high school have a harder time in the real world. Too bad for them. Hopefully I'm a "late bloomer".
This is because that is what they think they can get. I really think a lot of this has to do with beliefs and assumptions, because back in school I believed I could've pulled school staff members and to my surprise one was going to take me to red lobster on the last day of school, but I forgot.

A guy I met in the community really believes he should only get 10s, and so he doesn't want to approach 9s and below, if he doesn't feel that feeling he won't go for her...he passed up a lay with a chick who I believed was a solid 9 who was leaving U.S in the morning forever, her eyes were saying to all 3 of us "Someone **** me before I leave". I asked them what they were doing, they were going to there hotel, I joked about going out with a bang they were down for it...but he believes he should only go for what he thinks ares 10s...and to my surprise he # closed 2 10s and is trying to get a meet up.

A lot of my friends believe it's easier to get chicks if you have a car, nice cloth, etc. Back in high school they also thought it was easier to get chicks from other schools and lower grades.

Dudes who got women back in high school naturally, usually end up becoming naturals in there adult life, unless they had some drastic change. Also another good example, is college, everyone SWEARS when you hit college you should automatically get laid like a rockstar, and many believe it...and to my surprise guys who were getting nothing in my high school are getting something in college because they really believe these things.
 

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Basically High School is 100x easier than adult life.
God help me...

I think I will be better out of HS to be honest.
 

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High school has been treating me like **** lately....this lil girls are still being shaped by their mothers... This is the place where Ive had to get a phd in human interactions(**** test,body language,speed reading people..etc) and it still seems hard...but is still decent

Ive had to move away from the past(rejections) ....gotten in to **** like
yoga and relaxation...


In adulthoood women are much more easier.... they are more humble...except more subtle with how they act...and if u have been around this long enough...your work is cut out(whooopy)...gettin layed is less of a problem why I know.....

the consistent time clock makes her go balistic(I need a good mate that can give make a great baby..haha)

booze makes this girls easier....(hey my ***** itches for some fun...got some time haha...)

They know what they want(some ****) they know how to get it...
 

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You guys mentioned girls being more humble after high school. This is releaving, because there are a few stuck up girls and it pisses me off because being so stuck up makes them look terrible.

One of them got owned by nature though, she got fat and ugly over the last couple of years so now she's just a ***** with a stuck up attitude and low self-esteem. Karma.
 
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