"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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High School Valentine's Grams

cali4nialove

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So our high school has these Valentine grams that they sell until this friday, I'm thinking of getting one for a girl I like, but I wouldn't know what to write on it, I have just recently started reading the High School Bible thread and am in the process of changing myself and turning my life around, so for now I have no clue what to write and was wondering if someone could give me something funny/witty to write on the card. Something that will not make it blatant I like her, because that would probably kill any attraction we have between us, I know that much lol.

We hang out in a small group of friends and I've known her for about 7 months but have been too ***** on the inside to do anything. I say on the inside, because on the outside, people think I'm a player when really I SUCK. I'm good at talking to girls, making them laugh and have a good time, but suck at showing any sign of interest and doing something about it. I'm way too ***** to make a move, which is why I desperately came here for help. We see each other everyday, I make her laugh everyday, I NEG her everyday (in a friendly way) which makes her laugh more. I have never acted in a way to get friendzoned, in fact we always tease each other about how mean we are to each other.

So, what witty/funny line could I write on a Valentine gram like this, or should I send one at all (I feel like it will be obvious I like her). Since I hang out with her/my friends which are 4 girls and one guy, and I treat them all the same way I treat her, I feel like it will be obvious that I like her if I send it to only her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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devilkingx2

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well I guess it's way too late now lol.
 
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