"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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High School Valentine's Grams

cali4nialove

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So our high school has these Valentine grams that they sell until this friday, I'm thinking of getting one for a girl I like, but I wouldn't know what to write on it, I have just recently started reading the High School Bible thread and am in the process of changing myself and turning my life around, so for now I have no clue what to write and was wondering if someone could give me something funny/witty to write on the card. Something that will not make it blatant I like her, because that would probably kill any attraction we have between us, I know that much lol.

We hang out in a small group of friends and I've known her for about 7 months but have been too ***** on the inside to do anything. I say on the inside, because on the outside, people think I'm a player when really I SUCK. I'm good at talking to girls, making them laugh and have a good time, but suck at showing any sign of interest and doing something about it. I'm way too ***** to make a move, which is why I desperately came here for help. We see each other everyday, I make her laugh everyday, I NEG her everyday (in a friendly way) which makes her laugh more. I have never acted in a way to get friendzoned, in fact we always tease each other about how mean we are to each other.

So, what witty/funny line could I write on a Valentine gram like this, or should I send one at all (I feel like it will be obvious I like her). Since I hang out with her/my friends which are 4 girls and one guy, and I treat them all the same way I treat her, I feel like it will be obvious that I like her if I send it to only her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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devilkingx2

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well I guess it's way too late now lol.
 
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