>>>High School isn't as simple as we all think it is!<<< (Question)

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[if u dun wanna read all of this skip to the part with the ***]


OK well ive been reading David DeAngelo's email and reading this site and the forums for about 2 years now. Ive acquired a lot of knowledge and use it on the field and now that im in grade 10 i got a gf.

Now some things that are really messed are:
-Kiss Test (not saying its bad but its not necessary)
-Being a challenge

ok firstly i didn't need the kiss test to kiss her. Being a challenge is quite hard in highschool...iono if its just me but my girlfriend says she loves me and hugs me and all but then FOR SOME REASON I FEEL LIKE IM THE ONE THAT'S SEEKING HER APPROVAL. I think this for the following reasons:
-I kiss her more than she kisses me (cheek)
-And....

[This is the meat of my thread]
For some reason, it seems like my gf is the one thats protecting ME!! Ok so im

in gr 10, 140 pounds, i have a medium sized body but most of my body is muscle cuz i work-out now. Ever since i had a girlfriend, it seems everyone tries to be better than me or her or other couples try to be better than US. So this is what happened today..

We were hanging out and i tapped this girl ont he shoulder to say hi and she looked back and said like "Did you do that or did he?" My gf pointed at me and then the girl started to PRETEND to hit me (wow some girls are such b1atches) and iono why but i was like blocking with my hands (like avoiding) and my gf starts saying NO dont hit him!

Wow.. i love her...

Anyways, after school we were hanging out again and then some other couple were piggybacking around and the girl kicked my gf while she was on the guys back and my gf is like arg wtf~ (like jokin way) and they're like running away. Although my gf knows them a lil,

1) Should i have seen it coming and stood between them?
2) Hug my gf and feel sorry for her
3) say fVck off to the other couple?

What ive been doing is nothing.... whenever things like this happen i just talk about it with her and we both laugh, but i feel pathetic...

***I havent read this ANYWHERE before so heres my question:

Should i protect my gf from things like ppl making fun of her in highschool (even when its like jokin), or should i let it go and just have fun. Its cuz she always protects me and if i do the same for her ill feel so over-protective, but if i dont then i feel like a wimp... so iono... And if i DO protect her, how do i do it? Beat up the other person? or Diss them up?

[Im not very strong but im not very weak either... but im pretty good at dissin ppl]

 

[moldingcheese]

If they r joking then don't take it seriously! Joke back and act like it is what it should be, just a joke.

 

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Well the thign is that... It was a joke

but then the girl kick my gf 4 times, and was laughing when she was riding away on her bf so thats why i posted this

 

[john_1234]

consider yourself very lucky to know this stuff at your age

 

[toddC]

i agree with jon

and also, if they are your gf's friends don't worry anythign about it you could like pick her up and run away in like a joking fashion so it protects her and gets a lil chuckle too.

 

[Adone]

One thing you have to learn is that you should ALWAYS do what YOU feel is right. Do you think that a lame joke won't hurt her and she should learn how to defend herself? Then, let it go. Otherwise, reply. We cannot tell you what is RIGHT and what is WRONG, we can just tell you what attracts women and what does not.

Personally, I'd answer back, but I'm very protective with my girls, since she's pretty frail and feminine. But that's OUR relationship, not yours.

The only thing I can tell you is that you should never feel pathetic or, even worse, a wimp, so you are probably not acting the way you want to.


One last thing, try to type in a better fashion next time and in a proper way, since most people here are not American/English/Canadian/Australian/Whatever and find it really hard to understand such a long post, expecially when it's filled with bad syntassis and grammar.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

OMG unless you and EVERYBODY that ****ing responded to this thread is a retarted...

this has to be a joke right? it's like tackling a girl or grabbing her from behind and pretending to be the tickle monster!

WTF you guys don't know that girls like to have fun and play games?

was the girl saying nothing before and after you pretended to cower like a puss? Just grab her hand while she's swinging at you lightly and start saying "stop punching yourself" where is your style?

 

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oo yeah i realized its cuz that other girl broke up with her bf so thats why she was so pissed.....today she did the same thing and i grabbed her hands lol, and now im reading da Stoners thread and feelin good that i did it

 

[SmoothAussiE]

dude your over-analysing the situation. by the sounds of it all was done in a joking matter, so theres no point tryin 2 act like a hero for your gf, your jus gona make urself look like a fool.

its good that you dont follow the "being a Challenge" crap becoz unless u understand how 2 really apply and why, it will stuff u up.
Like John said your very lucky 2 know this stuff at your age!
So the best thing 2 do at your age is experience as many grls n situations as possible n in a few years you'l b laughin at your knowledge over other guyz!!

 

[dannowillbookem]

haha man u put too much thought into it. i didnt read the replies but heres what i got from reading the main post.

relax. if some guy ****s with ur girl seriously, let him know it aint cool. but that couple man that was just playing, and you should just laugh about it.


and some of us just have to worry about drugs and our futures lol.

 

[Exo]

IMHO you got the "allways in control" passive sort of cool. Like it shows your not some wimp trying to act tough by picking fights for no reason and she cant get you into trouble like that. Sounds like a challange to me

 

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ok today... i was makin fun of my gf's sister who also has a boyfriend.

I was makin jokes about her bf and then my gf's sister tries to slap me! Well i blocked it...and then she keeps tryin to do it... (playfully) but then she never gets me. Well then i say ok slap that guy (my good friend) and then she says "no~ he'll like tackle me"

this just made me realize that girls think im weak and pu$$y

and to confirm that....

at lunch that other b1tch that lost her boyfriend(and that tried to hit me) said i was pu$$ywited (supposedly it means that my gf is in control of me - me and my gf both thought that this is so NOT true, but i have to agree that it probably seems like it is) By the way, guys dont call me a pu$$y...

Anyways... i know this is really weird but....

**QUESTION**
How do i seem more tough to girls??? Or at least NOT seem like a pu$$y?

[ok if u guys are gonna say im over-analyzing just remember that this stuff isnt convered in www.sosuave.com or DavidDeAngelo....not that it needs to be]