"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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High School: Gaining Attraction

Snow Plowman

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I have some time to kill so I'm just going to post up some info for a bit. Many guys cry about they don't know what to say and stuff. (Read my post: Keeping it fun) But there are countless things you can do. I'm just going to give a run down of some Attract based things I've done.

Note: I'm not too into depending on routines and stuff. I find it should only be used when your losing a set and at the beginning. (When you first open and trying to get some attraction going) But overall I tend not to do routines that way I can learn to say things on the fly.

Here are some few ideas (Just come up with your own twists, these things can be used whenever and could be said at anytime. You could be talking about glue and out of no where just say these things)

Mini Cold Reads
1. Telling them they are bad
2. Telling them they are trouble

Takeaways
1. (When she tries to tease you) "OMG now I'm going to cry *Act as if your leaving*
2. "That's it I'm out of here"
3. Just get up and walk away
4. "O ****" Just leave and go into another set

Roleplaying
1. She or They are your bodyguard (This can lead to so many things)

2. She or They being your gf (I've got to the point where I told them they are all going to be my gf for a minute and I just kept talking and would just say "NEXT" and go on to the next girl. Usually final girl I'd say two different random choices. Anything from take my # or spend a day in my life to taking my appel or getting an additional 5 minutes with me. Anything you choose)

3. She is a MILF and she is trying to seduce you (Ex. "Wow you look like my friends mother...Stop seducing me by trying to call me over for some cookies)

4. She is your wife (This is too much fun and after a two months I still have this roleplaying frame on this girl.) Basically so many things you can do with this. Maybe you started off BF/GF and got married, have a ceremony with her friends. (This can cause attention when your on your knees, actually pretty fun) Divorce her and all that good sh!t.

Games
1. Thumb Wars
2. What would you rather do, eat, see, hear, touch, etc...? (This is fun, I've had some crazy options. One of my favorites when it starts getting out of hand is ask them would the rather get fuked by the whole military force or get fuked by a stable of horses.)
3. Would you ****...? (Point out guys, or make her choose, throw in a girl, etc.) This is similar to fuk, marry, kill

Impressions/Imitating
1. Singing uncommon songs - Disney music, song from a movie, etc.
2. Making fun of how she speaks
3. Accents - English, French, Country, Gay, etc

C&F

Push/Pull

Sexual Innenudo ( I personally love this) So longs its playful, you can get away with it. Don't come from a needy, horny frame or else this can backfire.
1. She slaps your leg "ahh my dik, you slapped it pretty hard."
2. What is that your SUCKING on?
3. "Hey xxx I'm going in?" Dive in like your about to fuk her

Stories (This right here makes time fly, the stories don't even need to be good. But never hurts having a punchline)
1. Anything funny from a movie - "Haha...ever seen...when.."
2. Made up story - Girl ask you what you did this week you say a story how you got fuked up badly and you have lumps and stitches. (Truly a lie because you look perfectly fine) These stories I tend to say I was joking
3. Anything you did today - I went to get cereal and when I went in the fridge I took water instead of milk. Anything


Thing is you can quickly hook attention. You go in get married hugging and all that. Everyone is having fun you tell her you cheated on her, go into a story. Tell her to give you one more chance, then all of a sudden your like forget it because she can't dance anyway and her food wasn't good. So now she is your ex wife and you go up to her friend acting like your hitting on her.

As you can see its not too hard, just having fun and playing around. In between you can always have a regular conversation. Hope this helps some people.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But rember, this is only for the first stage.
Great ideas, i espicaly liked the bodyguard idea.
 

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I don't get it.
 

Snow Plowman

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Infraction said:
But rember, this is only for the first stage.
Great ideas, i espicaly liked the bodyguard idea.
Yea I was just trying to give some people a start to getting into this.

As for the bodyguard thing. I've pushed this very far to just see where it can lead. An let me tell you walking arm in arm with 2 women being your body guard raises social proof through the roof. Most of these stuff really come down to frame control, once you can mentally pummel through sh!t you can get away with almost anything.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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