"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Game" can help within your social circle though.

I'd say since I've got better at escalating and just getting things to where I want them to be in my social circle. If you don't know how to close hanging around girls can just leave you in the friendzone and mighty confused.

But I mostly get laid through my social circle because you can pull hotter girls with less effort...if you know the right people. You have the logistics sorted on the most part, you will see them more than once so you dont even have to get their number and just go for the casual facebook.

"Game" is for guys who just don't roll in those circles and I won't lie, it makes it so much harder to pull. That's why nerdy guys are really into it because it speaks to them, it's like infiltrating a secret club. Getting assess to the hottest girls is so much easier if you know them in advance, if you don't they might talk to you or even give you their number but you'll have to do well to get them out again.

I think it's like anything, get your pvssy from a variety of sources. Nightclubs, during your everyday interactions and through friends. The more sources you have the easier it will come, guys who purely do cold approach tend to be robotic and weird. I've said before get female friends who you can hang around with regularly because they know other girls, you can be explicit and go through their facebook and be like "she's hot" and "invite her to XYZ" if you have the right rapport. They invite their friends out, there are no awkward openers just chatting, keep it light, sexual and you literally have to fvck it up. From my experience, if she's comfortable with you and you have enough "game" to get attraction, then you're in with a good chance.

I have 2-3 good female friends who I know will set me up and have set me up with their friends and I have done visa versa. It's just an easier source to get pvssy and it's not like you have to do a lot to maintain these friendships, you don't have to act like her gay best friend. Just be a cool guy, invite her out to something occasionally, be someone she can enjoy hanging around with rather than acting like all women are little sluts and they'll come to you. I've got with girls far hotter and more easily than with cold approach which is a numbers game, social circle game is great because you just by-pass all the crap and just get onto the stuff that makes a difference which is where experience from "game" can really help.
 
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Cold-approaches are definitely tougher, but overcoming the fear of rejection is exhilarating.
 
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HumbleNinja,

Does your mom ever wonder why you create female POF profiles when she passes by your room?
 

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BeDJ said:
HumbleNinja,

Does your mom ever wonder why you create female POF profiles when she passes by your room?

Does your mom ever wonder why you email the obviously fake ones I create?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HumbleNinja said:
Does your mom ever wonder why you email the obviously fake ones I create?
Now now boys, calm down. Neither of your moms care about your internet relationships, they're both too busy licking my nuts.
 

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Purefilth said:
Now now boys, calm down. Neither of your moms care about your internet relationships, they're both too busy licking my nuts.

LMAO. It would be a cool story if everyone on So Suave didn't already know you were living in the SS mens health and fitness bathhouse giving each other the juice from meat injections while admiring each others physiques!
 

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LMAO. It would be a cool story if everyone on So Suave didn't already know you were living in the SS mens health and fitness bathhouse giving each other the juice from meat injections while admiring each others physiques!
U mad bro?

U 'mirin the aesthetics brah?
 

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LMAO. It would be a cool story if everyone on So Suave didn't already know you were living in the SS mens health and fitness bathhouse giving each other the juice from meat injections while admiring each others physiques!
:crackup:
 
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lol. Don't talk sh1t about those H&F boys; Purefilth and TheStig are swollen up! Those are a couple of guys you want on your side in a bar fight haha.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purefilth said:
U mad bro?

U 'mirin the aesthetics brah?
So are you a sick kunt? Got some Zyzz?

Yeah, come at me bro. I am aware.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Dude. Bro. HumbleNinja. Do you even squat?
:crackup: :crackup: Ninja doesn't even train legs!!! :crackup: :crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Purefilth said:
:crackup: :crackup: Ninja doesn't even train legs!!! :crackup: :crackup:

The wrist is all I need! Check the stress relieving technique! >>> :cuss:
 
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