"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp Week Three: Let's Learn Faster

LearningSlowly

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Three's the charm.

Let's get going with this, settle into a groove and create new habits.

My lucky number is 7. We'll be doing that many approaches this week.

For an approach to count, you have to get sexual with both speech AND physicality. Here's how we'll define that.

You must use a word that indicates physical interest. Hot, sexy, beautiful would all do very well. You don't need to tell her that she is one of these, though you may. Other options would be: "Do you think I'm hot?" or "I'm too sexy to be doing this."

That's only half the battle though. In order to make the approach count, you need to touch her. Hugs, hand holding, and cheek-kisses all count.

Once you have those two things, you have achieved one of your seven approaches.

But hey, I'm a nice guy, so here's one extra piece of motivation. Anytime you get a number, you can count that as 2 approaches. The way I see it, if you can get 7 approaches in, any numbers you get will be the cherry on top that get you to 8+/7.

Finally a chance for my sexy side to come out ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mindgamez

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Let's get SEXUAL!
Holy sh1t this will be epic...
But I gotta do week 2 and 3 all in one week. This will be a lot, but whatever. I will do it. My buddy too.

Would you guys approach and directly open with a good compliment? Let's say I ask for her name and we shake hands but I keep holding her hand for a long time while telling her she's gorgeous. Would that count? Or it's not big enough?

Do I have to say that she's sexy, or can I just say that I like her cute smile? (I don't want to say things that aren't sincere).

Anyway, good challenge bro.
 

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Djghost, well done!
Challenge accepted for me too. I'll even try to do more if I can. I'm fricken tired of never taking action and only thinking and thinking overly all the time. It doesn's bring me anywhere and I'm just running in the same circle!

Let's fawkin' do this yioh.
 

AlexLefty

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Mindgamez said:
Would you guys approach and directly open with a good compliment?
Yes

Mindgamez said:
Let's say I ask for her name and we shake hands but I keep holding her hand for a long time while telling her she's gorgeous. Would that count?
I would say yes, but it's LS's decision

Mindgamez said:
Do I have to say that she's sexy, or can I just say that I like her cute smile? (I don't want to say things that aren't sincere).
Once again, I would say yes, but it's LS's decision

Very good challenge LS!

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Perfect. This I can do
what was ur week 2 status?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jack Wealthy

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I'd say yes to all your questions. I think Josh made it pretty clear: touch her (all touch from me is sexual, I'm like a vibrator) and say a sexual word SEPARATELY OR TOGETHER. You don't have to slap her ass while you compliment it.
 

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Just to make it clear, do these approaches have to be cold/new approaches or can it be with women we're already familiar with?

Mindgamez said:
But I gotta do week 2 and 3 all in one week. This will be a lot, but whatever. I will do it. My buddy too.
Ahahaha, no worries. I have to do all three weeks! Sheer laziness. :whistle:
 

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well 7 is a kinda high number... especially for such a small city that I live in... but damn I shall try... just hope that I'll go to the bar on friday...
 

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amohield said:
Just to make it clear, do these approaches have to be cold/new approaches or can it be with women we're already familiar with?
All new. Girls at school are permissible, even if you approached them for the last two challenges, but not if you had a significant conversation with them. Any more questions on that I'll leave to your own judgment.

To Mindgamez: Yeah those are all fine.

Answer these questions yourselves guys. We're on an honor system around here, be sexy with your hands and tongue. Girls love it.

(lol Jaedon, "Im like a vibrator" might go into my rap)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I love it!

As a quick tip that I *used* to use, if I shook hands with the female, I'd hold it just a little longer while looking into her eyes and giving a sincere compliment, even if it was about her hands. Promotes confidence and sexuality all in one.
 

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2/7 down :)

Went up to some girl, she was on my bus but I didn't talk to her. I walked up to her where the bus stopped and introduced myself, she hijacked the conversation . I was sexy as fcuk. She gave me her number. Life.

Learning, sweet man :) I'd like to hear that.
 

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Wasn't even thinking about the challenge today - it's sports day! But I met this cute French chick with a cool personality in the year above. Joked about her "seductive stares" and lots of kino. And this was without my mind on the challenge! 1/7
 

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I did a lot of approaches but I'll count two of them for the challenge. Both were pretty much the same- I had to sell the school newspaper in the hall and I opened the girls with a compliment and went on being a salesman. I couldn't have gone anywhere though as one was in 12th grade and the other was in a hurry .

Anyway, I will fail this challenge- school's out until Monday because of bad weather,malls and public places are pretty much empty and some other bull**** factors. **** you,mother nature,stop being such a cold *****!
I'm going to a party on Saturday so I will try to do some there but I think I will already know most of them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AlexLefty

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The Libertine said:
I couldn't have gone anywhere though as one was in 12th grade
Why does this matter?

The Libertine said:
Anyway, I will fail this challenge- school's out until Monday because of bad weather,malls and public places are pretty much empty and some other bull**** factors. **** you,mother nature,stop being such a cold *****!
I'm going to a party on Saturday so I will try to do some there but I think I will already know most of them.
Damn...let's see. You could always hit up places where there are a lot of stores together. Examples would be walmart, macdonalds, wendys, target, shopko, a tanning place, grocery stores, clothing stores, movie theaters, public transportation, the airport?, gas stations, subway etc., gyms, restaurants. I'm not sure if any of these will work with your situation, but just some ideas. Don't give up!!
 

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why are people complaining about weather? man it was -30C here and snowing and there were still lots of people on a disco and in a bar on friday night... well i guess there are places where people are not used to cold weather at all but still... anyway i'm still at zero with the challenge... but when i'll go out to a bar i'll definitely try to approach some girls...
 

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I'm going to get at least 1 at school tomorrow (one of my biggest fears) and maybe hit up the mall. There's a free concert so I'll be going there too. I have to finish this tomorrow because saturday I have to go to a dance with kayla.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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