"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp: Week 1 - Hit The Ground Running

Amo

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Only got about half-way through this challenge. No worries, I'm redoing it this week. I was being very specific and really only talking to girls I found attractive. Still will be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlexLefty

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Peterbror said:
i still have approach anxiety so i hope that the next challenge will make it disappear.
AA will never disappear. Especially not in a week or two. All we're doing is numbing ourselves to it, so that when we do feel it, we don't care. Embrace it, get excited, and keep plowing forward. Slowly, you will become numb to it!
 

fullbang

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so i met two more girls in the bar today, got their names and had small chit-chat about some party. So 4/10, im little late but ill make it :)
 

CharlieMSimmons

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Cool

:rock: Cool! I'm gonna do it tomorrow. There is only about 800 students at my school but I'm sure i could pull this off. I meet girls every day. :rock:
 
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