"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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High School Dates

hyphy101

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Yeah so i'm in need of any original date ideas that can be done without a crap load of cash or immediate access to a car. I've read the highschool bible but i was just wondering if anybody would like to add to the list.

ps I know this should be in highschool forum, but no one goes in there and some of the advice and questions are eh........
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Triple T

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swimming?
romantic walk?
Chilling at her/your house?

Those are some stuff I do with my gf that don't require a car/lots of money
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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i don't remember the high school bible much but here's some ideas.

where are you from? age?

putt-putt golf
amusement park
a park / dog park (pretty fun)
beach
boating
hanging out in the city... like "hitting the city" or whatever the lingo is... i don't live in a big city so i don't know those lingos.
hiking
mountain biking



think outside the box, something outside, and active. i recommend the underlined ones, chances are she'll love it and no other guy will do it or have done it.

something that gets her senses going. nice visuals, smells and sounds... but you provide the "feelings". bring a nice camera so she can keep "bugging" you to show her the pictures... film type of cameras.
 
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