"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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High School C&F and Neg Hits

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This thread is for listing some C&F or neg hits that you use in common and casual high school situations, everyone contribute your goodies here!!!

(Girl asking for a pen/pencil during class, or anywhere in school)
Girl: Can you lend me a pen/pencil?
DJ: Sure, i will lend you it so you can write down your number for me "hand her pen and piece of paper"

(Girl asking for the time)
Girl: Do you have the time?
DJ: When? Tonight or tmmr night?

(Girl asking why you aren't going to Charity Day, a party etc)
Girl: Why aren't you going?
DJ: Are YOU going?
Girl: Yes
DJ: That's why.

(Girl asking to sit beside you in class #1)
Girl: Is this seat empty?
DJ: Yup, you can sit on it as long as you keep your hands to yourself.

(Girl asking to sit beside you in class #2)
Girl: Is this seat empty?
DJ: Yes, and this one will be too, "pointing at your own seat", if you sit on it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude... you double posted....!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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easy with the negatives though. Too much will make them back off permenantly and give you a pretty bad rep.
 
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C&F are not lines, they're an attitude. Untill you learn that you're not being ****y and funny.
 
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