“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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High Quality Women (list yours here)

bigneil

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I'm curious to hear some working examples of women men consider high quality (who they dated 3+ months minimum). Also list their dark side which led to your demise.

Here is my sample template which you can fill in:

Bio:

Profession:
Rating:
Her Salary:
How we met:
Kids:
Ever married:
Lived alone:
Age Difference:
Relationship length:
Reason for ending:
Who dumped who ratio:

Her dark side:
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Bio:

Profession: Software engineer
Rating: HB7
Her Salary: $90K
How we met: We were coworkers
Kids: No
Ever married: No
Lived alone: Yes
Age Difference: She was 9 years younger.
Relationship length: 1 year.
Reason for ending: Broke up when I accepted a travel job
Who dumped who ratio: 60% her ending it

Her dark side:
> She was tempermental and would literally fly off the handle and storm out of a restaurant right after you ordered food if you even looked at her the wrong way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Eternal_water

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Ok I've only dated 1 girl but she was high quality so at least I can reply.

Baring in mind we were 17/18 and in 6th form collage

profesion: student and worked in a florist
rating: 9 (and I know how biased that sounds but I'm being honest)
her salary: NA
how we met: at a (female) friends party
kids: no
ever married: no. She said she only ever had 1 previous boyfriend, and was a virgin who had only kissed once. Of course what they say and mean aren't neccesarily the same, but she did seam like the definition of innocence.
lived alone: no, with parents
age difference: 1 month.
relationship length: 9/10 months
reason for ending: Well she said it was becuase we didn't see each other enough which could well be true. Uni was also approaching for both of us and we wouldn't be at the same one, that might have had an effect.
who dumped who: she dumped me.

her dark side: never discovered one. Literally the whole time we didn't have 1 single argument.
 

Gro0ver

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Profession: Law
Rating: HB7
Her Salary: £60K
How we met: When we were in college
Kids: No
Ever married: No
Lived alone: Yes
Age Difference: 1 year younger
Relationship length: 9 years
Reason for ending: Broke up due to getting together at young age. Didn't want to get married and wanted to see what else was out there.
Who dumped who ratio: 70% me ending it, maybe more.

Her dark side:

Wasn't very independent. Needed a lot of phone talk. A bit controlling at times. No huge negatives.

Both agreed we may get back together at some point but not for awhile.
 

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Interesting thread. I'll give it a whirl...

Current GF Bio:

Profession: Customer Service (Just finished College - currently looking for new job)
Rating: HB8
Her Salary: $25,000 per year
How we met: Through her dip5hit sister whom I've known since 2005
Kids: 0
Ever married: No
Lived alone: No (still living with parents)
Age Difference: 12 Years younger
Relationship length: Currently 10 Months
Reason for ending: N/A
Who dumped who ratio: N/A
Dark Side: None discovered yet


Last GF Bio:

Profession: Insurance Broker
Rating: HB5 (was maybe a HB6 when I met her)
Her Salary: Never asked
How we met: Karaoke bar - Met her when I was still married
Kids: 0
Ever married: No
Lived alone: No (was living with parents when I dated her, previously lived with a roommate)
Age Difference: 1 year older
Relationship length: 9 months
Reason for ending: Met HB8 listed above :D
Who dumped who ratio: I dumped her 100%
Her dark side: Bi-polar and started pushing to move in, get married, have kids. She also got fatter during the relationship.

I don't consider any of the previous other women I dated to be high quality.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bigneil

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Bio:

Profession: Exotic Dancer
Rating: HB8.7 (Hot or Not average rating of 4 photos)
Her Salary: $50K
How we met: At her work
Kids: No
Ever married: No
Lived alone: Yes
Age Difference: She was 21 years younger
Relationship length: 6 months
Reason for ending: Unknown, however the club threatened to fire her for dating a customer just as her HS bf (who she was trying to make jealous of me) came back into the picture.
Who dumped who ratio: 75% her (I tried preemptive dump to no avail).

Her dark side: > Her two favorite lines were "Are you going to get me drunk?" and "I said that?? I must have been drunk."
 

PDubb75

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Current Oneitis Bio:

Profession: Investment Banking
Rating: HB8, with a personality to bump that up much higher.
Her Salary: $70K
How we met: Vacation in Israel
Kids: No
Ever married: No
Lived alone: Lives with cousin who is a friend of mine, too
Age Difference: She was 2 years younger.
Relationship length: I'll call it 4 months. A little misleading, but whatever.
Reason for ending: Distance
Who dumped who ratio: fairly close to 100% her

Her dark side:
> She lived halfway across the country. That is honestly the only thing. I won't use the word perfect, but everything about the relationship was more ideal than I ever thought possible. No games whatsoever, incredibly appreciative of me, I had more of a "lead" of the relationship than I ever have with anyone, etc. Things were great, but neither of us were in a position to move (I'm in Chicago, she's in NY). Flights back and forth were simply not going to cut it with no end of that in sight.
 

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Bio: Girl 1 was my HS sweetheart.

Profession: Student
Rating: 7.5
Her Salary: 0
How we met: High School
Kids: No
Ever married: No
Lived alone: No
Age Difference: 1 year
Relationship length: 1 year
Reason for ending: We had just entered college and I was not willing to give up my freedom for our relationship.
Who dumped who ratio: 100% me.

Her dark side:
> She was a great girl...smart, athletic, not clingy, put up with my sh!t, and was a virgin when I met her. Nothing about her was dark...unless you consider not being a challenge part of a "dark side."



Bio: Girl 2 is my BPD story. She went back to school after our summer relationship started. We tried to make it a LDR.

Profession: IT Industry (just out of college)
Rating: 8.5-9
Her Salary: 60k
How we met: Worked some summer camps together.
Kids: No
Ever married: No
Lived alone: No
Age Difference: 4 years.
Relationship length: 5-6 months
Reason for ending: "Distance"
Who dumped who ratio: Probably 70% her. I tried to break up with her, but she brought me back in only to dump me a couple weeks later.

Her dark side:
> Where do I begin? She wanted to be in control of the relationship. After the first 3 months she refused to concede any sort of position on her part. Compromise was not even in her vocabulary. She told me about other men who were interested in her, was extremely hot and cold, told about her depressive nature, had a psychiatrist, and was convinced she was the hottest thing out there. There's plenty more, but I'm not in the mood to bash. Just an overall poor screening job on my part. But damn, she was cute. Experience was also worth it.





**Of these two women, I am still cordial with my HS gf. She was a genuine person, but we have both changed very much and realize we aren't the same people anymore. I went NC with girl 2 after she came back and we secksed each other up. I just wasn't comfortable with her. I still had some feelings for her, and feigning indifference was just too difficult for me. So I went NC and then a couple months after that she decided to check up on me. Luckily I stopped having deep feelings for her. She was very secksually overt in her messages. I thought, "nice I'll be able to bang her and not care." We hung out, got her back to my place, and she LMRd me. Haha, tried to power play me. She went home and I haven't spoken to her since. She is just batsh!t crazy.
 

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Profession: Pharmaceutical Sales Rep
Rating: HB8
Her Salary: $100K+
How we met: Bar
Kids: 2 (twins)
Ever married: Once
Lived alone: Yes
Age Difference: She was 3 years older
Relationship length: 4 months
Reason for ending: I just wasn't that into her, or her profession (I was a health food writer diametrically opposed to Big Pharma).
Who dumped who ratio: I dumped her 90% but she went NC permanently.

Her dark side: >
She was always trying to push "legal" drugs like Ambien on me (which I never took). Now THAT is a girl with a drug problem. Also, although she was gorgeous, her house was filled with photos of her friends who were hotter.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PDubb75

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bigneil said:
Her dark side: >
She was always trying to push "legal" drugs like Ambien on me (which I never took). Now THAT is a girl with a drug problem. Also, although she was gorgeous, her house was filled with photos of her friends who were hotter.
That's exactly how the ex I put a bio about was. Her friend's were all stuck up *****es though. She was the clear best option, even if her looks were slightly below her friends.
 

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my oneitis girl

Profession: receptionist
Rating: about a 6 n looks.
Her Salary: 25k? don't know
How we met: in a poolhall. though we supposed to have bee in grade one togther
Kids: 0
Ever married: no
Lived alone: with folks
Age Difference: same age
Relationship length: we never dated just sexed
Reason for ending: she found someone better then my clingy afc a#$
Who dumped who ratio: she dumped me once she used me to get over her ex bf.
Her dark side: i let her get away with murder ( didn't know any better) though the worst thing is. she was stuck in the 90's. she listens to all the 90's bands. s club 7, spice girls and stuff.drove me up the wall. plus she couldn't give a bj if her life depended on it. talk about peen in a blender.


anyway that's me
 
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