"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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high or low interest?

LandingWood

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What do you do about a chick who shows high interest in person but never texts or calls to setup dates?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MillionBillionaire

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LandingWood said:
What do you do about a chick who shows high interest in person but never texts or calls to setup dates?
Why on earth would you wait for her to call or text to set up a date?
 

LandingWood

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MillionBillionaire said:
You read the bible and start spinning plates. :woo:

and why on earth would you wait for her to call or text to set up a date? Lead brah.
And what if youve done both of those.
 

JoeMarron

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I wouldn't bother. You need to have a chick investing in you
 

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A woman who has "high interest" will not force you to ask the above question.

Remember, actions, not words. If she's interested she will show you!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gravityeyelids

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always assume high interest. You should be setting up the dates...as was mentioned already
 
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