"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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high IOIs from chick with bf.... advice please gentlemen

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just been for drinks with a chick thats been interested in me for a long time very touchy and it was going great , impossible to kiss or F**K close as her c*ock block friend was with us

problem is this chick has been in a LTR for a long time but by her own accord its "on the rocks"

i had to leave be but now I'm wondering how to play it from here

anyone got any experience in this sort of situation ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bingo-Player said:
just been for drinks with a chick thats been interested in me for a long time very touchy and it was going great , impossible to kiss or F**K close as her c*ock block friend was with us

problem is this chick has been in a LTR for a long time but by her own accord its "on the rocks"

i had to leave be but now I'm wondering how to play it from here

anyone got any experience in this sort of situation ?
Funny how you have all these terms down, Yet have not even grasped the understanding of value.

Why do you want to pee on someone else fire hydrant?

I will tell you how you "play it from here" Be a man! Go get a girl who has value why do you want to be with a girl who is willing to cheat on her boyfriend?
 

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@MisterSisterFister my thoughts exactly. Repped.
 

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Just leave it well alone!
Don't fvck with another guys chick. I don't care if you are Jesus. It ain't right. And karma is a b1tch so take heed, get the fvck outta there.
 

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Use it as a confidence booster and an ego stroke, nothing more. When you hear she dumped her guy jump on that snatch like a lion on a wounded gazelle!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's leading you on for attention.
 

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I've left it cool for the time being , really had to wrestle with my ego not to message her

i know were both going to be at the same social event next weekend so need some time to think

@don-kong .....i know man taking another guys chick isn't my style but me and this girl have had chemistry way before he was on the scene .....its my fault for not taking the opportunity when i had it , but at the same time i can't help that i am still attracted to her

she told me she needs a break from him i can't think of a bigger IOI stick that ontop of touching me every 5 mins and I'm really struggling to keep my values lol

@Seymourcake ..... thats not a bad call and it has run through my head , but this chicks got orbiters queuing up around the block falling over themselves to give her attention so why she would need to get it from me seems quite strange

anyway like i said I've left it for the time being gonna spin a new plate this week and then see what next weekend brings

will keep you posted
 

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SeymourCake said:
She's leading you on for attention.
This. There is not a friendlier sole on the face of the earth then a chick who has a boyfriend. Not even the Pope himself is as friendly as a girl who is taken.
 

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CerwinVegaFan said:
And why is that?
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lol friendly , we'll see how friendly she is when she's got her legs wrapped around my head :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CerwinVegaFan said:
And why is that?
Why are taken girls more friendly and outgoing then single girls?
 

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Robert28 said:
Why are taken girls more friendly and outgoing then single girls?
Because they are not constantly trying to qualify you for something.
 

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Yet another man who is considering a woman willing to cheat on her boyfriend... as LTR-worthy. Sorry, but homey don't play that.

They serve no greater purpose than temporary fvck-buddies.

I'm willing to bet HE doesn't know they are "on the rocks", but it's her mental justification for following through.

Read my signature if you have anymore doubts.
 

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Kailex said:
Yet another man who is considering a woman willing to cheat on her boyfriend... as LTR-worthy. Sorry, but homey don't play that.

They serve no greater purpose than temporary fvck-buddies.

I'm willing to bet HE doesn't know they are "on the rocks", but it's her mental justification for following through.

Read my signature if you have anymore doubts.
i don't want to believe you but i know your right.....

its added another level to my frame with her and given me a little more to think about

thanks dudes :up:
 

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IoI's don't mean sh1t if she isn't fvcking you in your bed. Excuses are for guys chicks want to string along. Chicks will bang you if they want to even if they are currently with someone and they don't make excuses for guys they find are better than the dude she is with.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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