Women dont just "play games" for no reason like some egomaniacal psychopath, unless of course its highschool where girls are young and mean and don't care. Most of the tests and games women play serve purpose of some kind or another.
True.... Understand this, if the woman is sane and normal, NOTHING happens by accident. Nothing is a mistake or misunderstanding. Almost everything sends a message. It is either conscious of subconscious but the message is sent. What men need to learn is what all this bullcr@p means. That is why I don't have a problem answering posts like this time and time again because we learn from repetition. So here we go....
If a woman is not making things easy, she isn't interested enough to make an effort. Women know this... they will do stuff like this when things are going well when you first start dating. They know this works and gets you to commit and work harder when she pulls back. It is a power leverage play. A woman that wants you to jump hoops to get her doesn't really love you... she might like you, but if she isn't feeling it, then she is just settling for you... if she is settling for you, then she'll be with you if you bust your @ss. It's like buying a car that you really don't like, but it is 'good enough'... for you to buy this car the dealer is going to have to give you more... lower price, free extras. You'll take the car that is 'good enough' but you are not going to be willing to pay full price. Then when you own the car, you will always be unhappy with it.
You always play this the same way... mirror her behavior. If she is really interested she will self-correct. If she doesn't and things, over time get more and more difficult, you are a plate and she has another plate she like better. Be okay with that because the 'plate' she likes better is likely tying himself in a knot to 'win her'... it will work, but now she has the power, which she thinks she wants, but really doesn't. At that point the best a man who 'won' can hope for is being a pack mule meeting her needs, with cr@ppy sex and an empty bank account.
The most important thing is not to be like the OP... DO NOT let this get inside your head... which is what is happening now. He is posting asking what is happening, he is already getting a little obsessed. Never fall for a chick that isn't in love with you, PERIOD. A woman starts making things difficult, go find a woman that isn't.