Well I've kicked almost perfect game to the newest girl on my team and I can tell shes got very high IL(95%+, she offers to buy, talks about me to friends, initiates intimacy, very strong signals and chemisty, good convo, etc). we've been out 4 times in four weeks now and i was only calling her once a week. last time we went out she asked me why i was keeping her waiting and told me i should call her more during the week. she also told me that i was a real mystery in the car before a 45 minute makeout session. i get the impression that this chick just wants to be close to me and maybe i should ease off the challenge a bit and enjoy and induldge myself. possibly crank the challenge up a bit if things change. any ideas on changing the intensity of the game to match her IL? anyways peace and love im out.=P
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High IL... tone back the challenge/hard-2-get?
- Thread starter DEKKA
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
MickeyOneil
Don Juan
tell her you're going to be out of the loop for a while, but if she wants to see you, she can email you and you can get together NEXT weekend.
njitalstalian
Don Juan
BRO, DONT GET FAT OFF YOUR SUCCESS WITH THIS ONE.. DONT LET YA GAME SLIP... THE CHIC'S GUNNA RESENT U IF U START BEIN ALL NICE TO HER. LOOK AT IT AS A TEST..U START LISTENING TO WHAT SHES TELLING U, YOUR IN FOR IT... PLAY ON PLAYA!
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
jakethasnake
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Stop screaming retard. Nix that caps-lock.
And DEKKA, you really should just dive in at this point. But keep up a bit of your elusivness, maybe at around 30%. If her interest is this high, you have nothing to lose. I would be at her place gettin' my dikk sucked right now.
And DEKKA, you really should just dive in at this point. But keep up a bit of your elusivness, maybe at around 30%. If her interest is this high, you have nothing to lose. I would be at her place gettin' my dikk sucked right now.