"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*High five*

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I tested this out on a night out and it works well.

I found it works best when on the street but can work well indoors.
When walkin past somebody jus make eye contact with a big smile and stay in a fun/silly frame.

Stick out ya hand an say something like:

"can i get a high five" and "come on i know you want to" biggrin.gif

It can be a good opener and you can gointo a convo.
Two good openers i then used were:

"You call that a high five? That was lame" - with a smile of course
"Ay up not so hard, its only a high five!" - i then went on to neg em by calling them muscular etc

I also found that a lot of people opened me, askin me Q's and starting talkin with me.

Im no good at approaching and this helped me break the ice, as well as get kino straight way. It can also show everybody your a fun guy.

From a whole night i only got dissed or ignored twice. Give it a go, go on. biggrin.gif
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ooh sorry, i didnt know that. I tried searchin it first but nothin came up.

PS its a tip, not a damn tip
 
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