“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I_Only_Live_Once

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If you see a girl and you're walking from the opposite direction, just stick out your hand. She will most likely give you a high five.

The following is optional:
If you think she's hot, smile, and say "wasssup baby".
If you think she's not, say "I didn't wash my hands".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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feels awkward. try it out for me first. not just my kind of style.
 

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Haha, I would actually do the opposite.

If she's hot say "I didn't wash my hands."

It's a playful neg. But anyways, funky tip. lol
 

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I_Only_Live_Once said:
If you see a girl and you're walking from the opposite direction, just stick out your hand. She will most likely give you a high five.

The following is optional:
If you think she's hot, smile, and say "wasssup baby".
If you think she's not, say "I didn't wash my hands".
awsome idea. shell most likeley wanna **** you on the spot
 

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applaya said:
awsome idea. shell most likeley wanna **** you on the spot
:crackup:


Seriously thou, she will just think you are weird! very weird! I would not even do this at a club, thou maybe at a house party.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I_Only_Live_Once said:
If you see a girl and you're walking from the opposite direction, just stick out your hand. She will most likely give you a high five.
You've been watching too many 80s movies.
 

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Cruise said:
Confirmed... It Works... :)
Cruise = I_Only_Live_Once :D

j/k
 

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im sure it work but nah, its not for me sorry.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was at the club last night and am writeing this to you with a hangover :crazy:

I high fived a few peple, guys actualy, just bieng freindly really. But on second thoughts i think it could work quite well, would get a lot ebtter response then hi. Its more 'fun'
 

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I actually do this a lot, it works (girls and guys), but you have to be energetic, and it must goith your style.
 

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It's true that STATE is everything. You can't approach and just stick a limp hand out like an overburdened slave searching for a bowl of rice. ALL ENERGY.

What I do if it's a REALLY cute piece... stick out the hand, 'party mode' smile and swagger, and when she reaches her hand out, I pull it back and swipe it smoothly over the top of my head. Got punched a couple times. Fun.
 

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This post brings back memories.

I used to do this all the time when I was in high school actually. Especially if I saw someone that looked down or stressed out from their day. I got the idea from this kid named Mitch who used to always give me a high five when he saw me in the halls. Then there was Franny. The most popular kid in school, and not one person hated him (despite the fact that he was your typical prep/jock). He used to walk down the halls and give everyone that looked down a pat on the back. When he saw his actual friends in the hallway, he'd give them a high five. I wasn't as close to him as his other friends were, but he always gave me a high five when he saw me.

I guess they grew onto me, because I started walking down the hall and giving random people a high five for no reason. Especially if the person looked down or upset. Of course in high school we only had five minutes between classes. So, I usually kept walking. However, on several occasions people would see me around and talk to me like we were already friends. And they only knew me as the guy that gave them a high five in the hallway one day in-between classes. Not only does giving random people a high five seem to break some sort of barrier, but it also seems to put a smile on peoples faces.

By the way, I think some of you are too afraid of looking weird (see: check_mate_kid_uk). However, when you're outgoing, you take those chances. When you're outgoing, you're not afraid of looking weird. You know that being weird can be a good thing!

Another interesting story. Rewind back to high school, again. One day, my mother is having a rummage sell. She's selling two full bags of bouncy balls (the ones you get out of machines for 25 cents) for one dollar. Franny, the kid I was telling you about earlier, made a bet with me. We called it, "The who has more balls challenge". We bought the balls from my mother for a dollar and we came up with a challenge. We would both bring a bag of bouncy balls to school and attempt to sell them. 25 cents per ball. The person who won the challenge would keep all the profit (each bag was worth 10 dollars). Now, selling candy bars is one thing... But selling rubber balls, that's just weird.

The interesting part is how we both acted when we sold them. At first, we both tried to sell them with serious looks on our face and come up with some lame story like "we're trying to raise money for a club". That got a few sells. I was getting bored, he was getting bored... We both wanted to sell our whole bag. So, Franny and I put a smile on our face and start walking up to people with a burst of energy. When people would walk away or ignore us, we'd say "ah, come on. Bouncy balls are fun! And they're cheap, too!". We purposely acted weird since we were selling a weird product in school anyway. Either the person would smile and keep walking or they'd turn back and say "okay, how much?". Sometimes, the person would smile and keep walking, but someone else would overhear us and they'd buy one. In the end, we both sold our whole bag.

The moral to that story is that acting weird isn't really a bad thing. In fact, by acting weird, we made our product seem FUN. And everyone was buying one just because it was the cool thing to do for that day. Around the end, we weren't even trying anymore. People were actually coming up to us and asking for them. Even when we both sold our whole bag, people were still asking for them. Because we made the product seem FUN when we decided to stop acting serious about the competition and acted a little bit weird. It also made US come off as FUNNER people to be around.

P.S. My marketing teacher actually saw me doing this and gave me extra credit points for that, heh.
 

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I remember watching a vid by Sensei on the topic,but he would use the high five after an openere.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LOL for an example of how to implement the hi-five, see "The Todd" from Scrubs:

"High Five!"
"Mental Five!" (nods head emphatically)
"Face Five!" (after getting slapped in the face by a woman)
 

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Good tip, and yes.....field tested and approved.
 

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Speaking from experience. I doubt this will lead anywhere.
I often do it after I drink and head clubbing. Responses are around 90% positive. Got high fives from hot HBs. But I dont consider this an achievement. Nonetheless, this is a fun thing to do and it is funny to see how surprised the chick is when u raise ur hand. lol
But I concluded it is like smiling or saying "hi" to a random chick.
It is pointless unless u incorporate some opener with the high five.

But hey, it might give u a confidence boost! It can be a part of a bootcamp routine. But smiling or saying "Hi" beats the high five imo.
If do it, I recommend doing it on the street tho; too weird for closed places.
 

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Dj Tiesto said:
Speaking from experience. I doubt this will lead anywhere...
Responses are around 90% positive.
How can you say it won't lead anywhere if you said it has a 90% positive reaction?
 

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MVP said:
How can you say it won't lead anywhere if you said it has a 90% positive reaction?
I am talking about the end result of "high fiving" a chick. Just doing a "high five" is pointless, at least for me. Most of the times I did it, the chick probably didnt even look back. There is no effort from the part of the girl, she just has to raise her hand.
I think it is an instictive act. The action of "high fiving" is rooted in her brain, it is a learned cognitive peration. Similar when u shake the hand of a person who is extending his hand to you, or when you intuitively try to catch a ball when someone passes it to u.

The fact that the chick is a stranger or an HB10 doesnt play a role here. Its a natural learned act on her behalf.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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