"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"high five".... good or bad?

baurman

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One of the things i like to do with chicks is when something good happens or whatever you know I say "High five!!" and I put my hand up and they'll give me a high five... I pretty much do this so I can start off with some sort of KINO. But... Is this :up: or :down: ??? Maybe It is too "Friendly" and not showing them any sexual signs and they would want to put me in the friend zone? Just wondering if it's ok to do this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Sperminator

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Not my style but could work I guess. Might come off too friendly though. All the pimps I know don't high five and I couldn't imagine like Brad Pitt high fiving someone.
 

DJ#7436

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The Sperminator said:
Not my style but could work I guess. Might come off too friendly though. All the pimps I know don't high five and I couldn't imagine like Brad Pitt high fiving someone.
Brad Pitt wouldnt need game, his looks would take care of everything.

Newb
 

TheMaestro87

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I use high fives occassionally, but usually it's when a girl in a set says something funny about my target. Gets a good laugh out of everyone, gets her friend liking me.
The other thing is later in the night if you do high five a target, you want to see what she does. Often the girl will leave her hand with yours for far longer than necessary, easy way to tell if she's interested.
Another thing to do is sarcastically neg a girl by offering a high five. She tells you she was reading a book the other day and you go "No way! I can read too! You really are different! {high five}"

Just some ideas, but in general, you probably don't want to be making a point of doing any of this.
 

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TheMaestro87 said:
I use high fives occassionally, but usually it's when a girl in a set says something funny about my target. Gets a good laugh out of everyone, gets her friend liking me.
The other thing is later in the night if you do high five a target, you want to see what she does. Often the girl will leave her hand with yours for far longer than necessary, easy way to tell if she's interested.
Another thing to do is sarcastically neg a girl by offering a high five. She tells you she was reading a book the other day and you go "No way! I can read too! You really are different! {high five}"

Just some ideas, but in general, you probably don't want to be making a point of doing any of this.
hey youre in davis,ca? damn UC Davis has the HOTTEST CHICKS!! Lucky basterd...youre in heaven...a place full of smart, hot chicks and nerds...knowing that you have the advantage over ALL of them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheMaestro87

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Please tell me that was some type of sick joke. Santa Barbara is soooooo much better!

I love Davis though.
 

fresh_to_death

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TheMaestro87 said:
I use high fives occassionally, but usually it's when a girl in a set says something funny about my target. Gets a good laugh out of everyone, gets her friend liking me.
The other thing is later in the night if you do high five a target, you want to see what she does. Often the girl will leave her hand with yours for far longer than necessary, easy way to tell if she's interested.
Another thing to do is sarcastically neg a girl by offering a high five. She tells you she was reading a book the other day and you go "No way! I can read too! You really are different! {high five}"

Just some ideas, but in general, you probably don't want to be making a point of doing any of this.

What this guy said. I do it all the time when I'm being sarcastic or can tell the girl is a dummy.
 

sgssosexii

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not to friendly at all, ii think this is a good mixture of funny/kino...simple but to the point, good stuff man!
 

sexybeast

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^ Good for building momentum, and getting youself into a fun state.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sometimes i put my hand out for a high five and pull it away fast when she goes for it. Say sike or too slow or whatever she'll usually laugh and push you or something. Dont forget to smile. =]
 

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Just when she's going to give you the "high five", move your hand over your head. Make it look like you're fixing your hair :) ...And remember to smile, like PuroDeAgave said.
 

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I find hi 5s great, especially since its hard to resist them and its unpredictable. I personally keep my hand very close to me and high as to force her to get closer. Top that with a nice winky smile and you are set ;)

Dont over use it thouh or else the charm is lost. I say once per girl :)
 
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