"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hiding Hickey's

gravityeyelids

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Okay so let's say you're sleeping with more than one girl, and one of them gives you a very obvious hickey. Now if you were just going out trying to pickup girls, this preselection can be a good thing. It might even make the girl you're sleeping with jealous and raise her attraction, but a high quality girl might not put up with this blatant sign that she's just one of a number of girls you're hooking up with..


How do you play this if she asks you about it directly?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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El Payaso

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Say you got stung by an insect.
 

Epimanes

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I thought hickies were only for teenagers/preteens. I dislike hickies. To me hickies are immature.

But since you asked. The best way to hide a hicky is to not get it were it is seen! Tell her to suck the end of your **** if she wants to suck on something.
 

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girl aren't dumb when it comes to hickies. wait til it clears up or use it as social proof lol. lying make it only worse.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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